I agree Colin that there are some offensive lines to be drawn but I suppose at the end of the day its how you as an individual reacts to a situation.Long gone are the days of the "n" word to describe black people,the Yid word which Spurs still use,he Paki word to describe people from Pakistan and countless other derogatory words of description.
Before I finished work I attended a wonderful seminar on Equal Opportunities,which was run by a Jamaican guy and an Indian bloke.They were superb,taking the piss out of one another,to show the difference between "banter" and racism.I`ll never forget the Jamaican guy saying how ridiculous people like Bernie Grant had swayed the public into believing that everyday words should be removed from the English language,as they were causing "outrage" to black people.
The words were blackboard,blackmail,blackbird ... the list was endless.
What one person gets upset by,another wont even give it a thought,or perhaps I`m just too laid back to get upset.
That doesn`t mean I`m advocating a return to the 1960/70`s when virtually anything went.I can`t put myself in your position as I`ve never been there and likewise in other peoples colour,creed and sexual orientation.I`m just a crippled old fart mate.
I blame Jim Davidson.