Your first paragraph is a load of emotive nonsense based purely on perception, and not really anything related to what posters have said.
Creating a counter-argument to set your view against to make it look more rational or better, sadly doesn't work, as it's easy to see through.
No, its not. All those things have been said countless times all day on this thread. Literally all have been said to me inside the past half hour, and repeated constantly throughout the day.