suicide

[Anonymous]

girl at work was in bits this week.

over the weekend she split from her boyfriend, her grandad got very ill, her dad and step-mum (who's like her mum) decided to divorce and she had horrendous tooth ache due to infection. she broke down on the bus to work in front of me and she's normally a strong person and not a crier.

2 days later and shes fixed things up with her boyfriend, her grandads shown signs of improvement and she's been to the dentist. she seems much better now.

point is, things can turn around just as quickly as they get bad.

like churchill said "if you're going through hell, keep going", one of my favourite quotes.

 

[80s Shorts]

What doesn't help is doctors trying to fob you off with meds after 2 minutes.
When I went to the docs they didn't even listen, they were pretty much writing the prescription as I was having a mini breakdown

Citalopram is often the most prescribed. I think docs get a bad rap, cognitive therapy is the only other option and most people only suffer a mild mental episode which can be balanced out by a course of these mild anti-depressents.

Obviously you get docs who don't give a flying fuck. Which is sad.

Citalopram is a good stabiliser when very low and should not be dismissed. CBT in my opinion is a crock of shit but that is my personal experience. The trouble is is that if you even manage to get on a course of therapy on the NHS it is typically 5 or 6 sessions over 6 to 8 weeks and generally with a trainee.

Some time ago I had such a course of CBT and this very well meaning uni grad thought it a good idea to"film" an interview with me whilst her colleague taped it all. I just wanted a chat I think.

And the fkin camera didn't work.

Suffice to say I did not go back.

 

[johnny on the spot]

girl at work was in bits this week.

over the weekend she split from her boyfriend, her grandad got very ill, her dad and step-mum (who's like her mum) decided to divorce and she had horrendous tooth ache due to infection. she broke down on the bus to work in front of me and she's normally a strong person and not a crier.

2 days later and shes fixed things up with her boyfriend, her grandads shown signs of improvement and she's been to the dentist. she seems much better now.

point is, things can turn around just as quickly as they get bad.

like churchill said "if you're going through hell, keep going", one of my favourite quotes.

And in another reality, the girl died and ban-mcfc posted that she was a faint-heart under the weather. What a guy.

 

[Anonymous]

girl at work was in bits this week.

over the weekend she split from her boyfriend, her grandad got very ill, her dad and step-mum (who's like her mum) decided to divorce and she had horrendous tooth ache due to infection. she broke down on the bus to work in front of me and she's normally a strong person and not a crier.

2 days later and shes fixed things up with her boyfriend, her grandads shown signs of improvement and she's been to the dentist. she seems much better now.

point is, things can turn around just as quickly as they get bad.

like churchill said "if you're going through hell, keep going", one of my favourite quotes.

And in another reality, the girl died and ban-mcfc posted that she was a faint-heart under the weather. What a guy.

i have no idea what your post means.

 

[80s Shorts]

Blessed are the poor in spirit for theirs is the Kingdom of Heaven.<br /><br />-- Thu Aug 22, 2013 12:11 am --<br /><br />

girl at work was in bits this week.

over the weekend she split from her boyfriend, her grandad got very ill, her dad and step-mum (who's like her mum) decided to divorce and she had horrendous tooth ache due to infection. she broke down on the bus to work in front of me and she's normally a strong person and not a crier.

2 days later and shes fixed things up with her boyfriend, her grandads shown signs of improvement and she's been to the dentist. she seems much better now.

point is, things can turn around just as quickly as they get bad.

like churchill said "if you're going through hell, keep going", one of my favourite quotes.

And in another reality, the girl died and ban-mcfc posted that she was a faint-heart under the weather. What a guy.

i have no idea what your post means.

Think he is calling you a contrary c.u..n.t

 

[Anonymous]

Blessed are the poor in spirit for theirs is the Kingdom of Heaven.

-- Thu Aug 22, 2013 12:11 am --

And in another reality, the girl died and ban-mcfc posted that she was a faint-heart under the weather. What a guy.

i have no idea what your post means.

Think he is calling you a contrary c.u..n.t

any ideas why?

 

[johnny on the spot]

girl at work was in bits this week.

over the weekend she split from her boyfriend, her grandad got very ill, her dad and step-mum (who's like her mum) decided to divorce and she had horrendous tooth ache due to infection. she broke down on the bus to work in front of me and she's normally a strong person and not a crier.

2 days later and shes fixed things up with her boyfriend, her grandads shown signs of improvement and she's been to the dentist. she seems much better now.

point is, things can turn around just as quickly as they get bad.

like churchill said "if you're going through hell, keep going", one of my favourite quotes.

And in another reality, the girl died and ban-mcfc posted that she was a faint-heart under the weather. What a guy.

i have no idea what your post means.

It makes as much sense as yours did. 'This girl at work went through some shit and she pulled through fine. So should everyone else'.

'Mutability is our tragedy but also our hope'. Weak philosophy.

 

[sweynforkbeard]

My ex wifes father hanged himself when she was 9 - it was my ex wife bringing her younger brothers and sisters home from school who found him. Obviously very traumatic. A mate who I went to football with a lot killed himself by feeding exhaust fumes into his car in Delamere forest - he suffered from Chrohn's disease and left a note saying he didn't want to become a burden to his parents and girlfriend. I've suffered from deep depression in episodes in the past and admit it has crossed my mind. During the very painful break up of my 30 year marriage I did consider it a few times - I didn't work for nearly a year and some weeks barely left the house. I only got up some days because my cat was asking to be fed - laugh all you want but she is one of the things that pulled me through, plus City, going to the matches meant so much, my local where I have such good friends and the city of Prague - my mates found a place for me on an already organised trip and it opened up a new outlook on life. I'm not into New Age stuff but if ever a place had a 'healing aura' then that was it. I've been prescribed three or four types of anti-depressant they have all made me feel worse so I stopped taking them - talking therapy has helped but most of all it's what I've listed above that. Yes to some extent it's selfish but please don't make light of the extremis people can find themselves in - just hope that nothing so bad awaits in your life that will take you to such despair.

 

[80s Shorts]

Blessed are the poor in spirit for theirs is the Kingdom of Heaven.

-- Thu Aug 22, 2013 12:11 am --

i have no idea what your post means.

Think he is calling you a contrary c.u..n.t

any ideas why?

Not a clue ;-)

 

[Anonymous]

And in another reality, the girl died and ban-mcfc posted that she was a faint-heart under the weather. What a guy.

i have no idea what your post means.

It makes as much sense as yours did. 'This girl at work went through some shit and she pulled through fine. So should everyone else'.

'Mutability is our tragedy but also our hope'. Weak philosophy.

did i say "so should everyone else" it was merely a good story of someone who was in a bad place and things worked out, there were one or two posters saying they've been down in the dumps and i was only trying to help.

but forget it now. you seem to know better, everyone kill themselves!