That's that then.

mcfcliam said:
MCFC BOB said:
AntonDonJuan said:
Hahahaha foe me then if i offend you so much

Or stop being a mard **** and take bob's cock out of your mouth
He enjoys the taste of it.

-

Anyway, I've rewritten the letter. I've basically said that I'm going to cut her out for a few months at least until it stops hurting. If my feelings for her go away, things might be different and we may be able to talk again. But I've basically said not to expect anything from me in the next few months.

I've thanked her for everything she's done and the amazing times we've had together but I've said that if I'm to move on from her then I can't talk to her or any of her friends.

Basically, I think the only time we're going to talk again is if she talks to me first. But who knows what the future holds, ay?

Right, I've stuck up for you on here but ffs, how many times...

DO NOT SEND THE LETTER!

A few months?! You need to cut her out of your life forever.

I don't think you're grasping this are you?

The hurt will never go away if you keep in contact with her, even if you cut her out for a few months, once you speak again, the hurt will re appear

Make the break fella...it's for the best.
A few months without her might mean I get over her in that time.
 
lee-mcfc said:
Swales lives said:
lee-mcfc said:
Instead of writing a letter why dont you just use the phone?

Better still, email her parents with a link to this thread.
Oh god that would be funny with people on her slating their daughter,


bob i wouldn't even bother with the letter

I agree don't send a letter.
Send your message by morse code or better yet put a symbol on the clouds like Batman.
 
MCFC BOB said:
mcfcliam said:
MCFC BOB said:
He enjoys the taste of it.

-

Anyway, I've rewritten the letter. I've basically said that I'm going to cut her out for a few months at least until it stops hurting. If my feelings for her go away, things might be different and we may be able to talk again. But I've basically said not to expect anything from me in the next few months.

I've thanked her for everything she's done and the amazing times we've had together but I've said that if I'm to move on from her then I can't talk to her or any of her friends.

Basically, I think the only time we're going to talk again is if she talks to me first. But who knows what the future holds, ay?

Right, I've stuck up for you on here but ffs, how many times...

DO NOT SEND THE LETTER!

A few months?! You need to cut her out of your life forever.

I don't think you're grasping this are you?

The hurt will never go away if you keep in contact with her, even if you cut her out for a few months, once you speak again, the hurt will re appear

Make the break fella...it's for the best.
A few months without her might mean I get over her in that time.

Yes but when you make contact again, her life might have changed, she might have a boyfriend and believe me, you'll be hurting again...just look at feed-the-goat's thread on when he got back in contact with an ex he thought he was over...he was hurting even more when he found out she was seeing someone.

You can never be 'friends' in this situation...just think of it as a downgrade, like, giving up your season ticket for a citycard, you might still watch a few games, but you still want that little bit more by having a season ticket...in this case, you've downgraded to 'friends' but you'll always want that bit more in being her partner. (shit analogy, I know)

I can just tell that you're holding out that hope that you might get back together with the 'who knows what the future holds' and 'a few months' comments.

It's not going to happen, you have to make sure you never speak to this girl again.
 
tueartsboots said:
tueartsboots said:
[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BtHjY3K5g1E&feature=related[/youtube]

Like I said earlier, we've all been there. Download Tears for Fears-The Hurting (1984)


[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5ofV0oJSxm4&feature=related[/youtube]
Puppy Love-Donny Osmond
 
mcfcliam said:
MCFC BOB said:
mcfcliam said:
Right, I've stuck up for you on here but ffs, how many times...

DO NOT SEND THE LETTER!

A few months?! You need to cut her out of your life forever.

I don't think you're grasping this are you?

The hurt will never go away if you keep in contact with her, even if you cut her out for a few months, once you speak again, the hurt will re appear

Make the break fella...it's for the best.
A few months without her might mean I get over her in that time.

Yes but when you make contact again, her life might have changed, she might have a boyfriend and believe me, you'll be hurting again...just look at feed-the-goat's thread on when he got back in contact with an ex he thought he was over...he was hurting even more when he found out she was seeing someone.

You can never be 'friends' in this situation...just think of it as a downgrade, like, giving up your season ticket for a citycard, you might still watch a few games, but you still want that little bit more by having a season ticket...in this case, you've downgraded to 'friends' but you'll always want that bit more in being her partner. (shit analogy, I know)

I can just tell that you're holding out that hope that you might get back together with the 'who knows what the future holds' and 'a few months' comments.

It's not going to happen, you have to make sure you never speak to this girl again.
*sigh*

You're right.
 
mcfcliam said:
MCFC BOB said:
mcfcliam said:
Right, I've stuck up for you on here but ffs, how many times...

DO NOT SEND THE LETTER!

A few months?! You need to cut her out of your life forever.

I don't think you're grasping this are you?

The hurt will never go away if you keep in contact with her, even if you cut her out for a few months, once you speak again, the hurt will re appear

Make the break fella...it's for the best.
A few months without her might mean I get over her in that time.

Yes but when you make contact again, her life might have changed, she might have a boyfriend and believe me, you'll be hurting again...just look at feed-the-goat's thread on when he got back in contact with an ex he thought he was over...he was hurting even more when he found out she was seeing someone.

You can never be 'friends' in this situation...just think of it as a downgrade, like, giving up your season ticket for a citycard, you might still watch a few games, but you still want that little bit more by having a season ticket...in this case, you've downgraded to 'friends' but you'll always want that bit more in being her partner. (shit analogy, I know)

I can just tell that you're holding out that hope that you might get back together with the 'who knows what the future holds' and 'a few months' comments.

It's not going to happen, you have to make sure you never speak to this girl again.
Exactly.

In short, you can't be friends with someone you once fucked if you still want to fuck them.

I know, I'm a romantic...
 
unsworthblue said:
tueartsboots said:
tueartsboots said:
[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BtHjY3K5g1E&feature=related[/youtube]

Like I said earlier, we've all been there. Download Tears for Fears-The Hurting (1984)


[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5ofV0oJSxm4&feature=related[/youtube]
Puppy Love-Donny Osmond
[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r_DVyJh0ngo&feature=related[/youtube]
 

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