MCFC BOB said:
mcfcliam said:
Right, I've stuck up for you on here but ffs, how many times...
DO NOT SEND THE LETTER!
A few months?! You need to cut her out of your life forever.
I don't think you're grasping this are you?
The hurt will never go away if you keep in contact with her, even if you cut her out for a few months, once you speak again, the hurt will re appear
Make the break fella...it's for the best.
A few months without her might mean I get over her in that time.
Yes but when you make contact again, her life might have changed, she might have a boyfriend and believe me, you'll be hurting again...just look at feed-the-goat's thread on when he got back in contact with an ex he thought he was over...he was hurting even more when he found out she was seeing someone.
You can never be 'friends' in this situation...just think of it as a downgrade, like, giving up your season ticket for a citycard, you might still watch a few games, but you still want that little bit more by having a season ticket...in this case, you've downgraded to 'friends' but you'll always want that bit more in being her partner. (shit analogy, I know)
I can just tell that you're holding out that hope that you might get back together with the 'who knows what the future holds' and 'a few months' comments.
It's not going to happen, you have to make sure you never speak to this girl again.