That's that then.

[lee-mcfc]

Bob, if you decide to send that letter, you'll regret it the second you put it in the post box

-- Jul 17th, '11, 23:38 --

Bob. Liam is your enemy. He's been bashing the crust off your little Scottish pie. You should not trust him. I'll be in touch.

Abi???

i miss that thread

 

[MCFC BOB]

Okay, I think it's time to let this thread go. People are falling out and I don't want that.

I've written her a letter basically explaining that I still love her, while explaining that if we can't get back together as a couple then I don't think I could take the emotional rollercoaster of us being friends.

I've given her my phone number if she wants to talk to me again, and I've reminded her that if she looks in the right places then she'll find me on Facebook and Twitter.

I've written a note to her parents thanking them for having me so often and I'm going to speak to her friends and say it was nice knowing them - albeit briefly.

This is so sad and my heart is breaking, but I guess this just has to be done if I'm ever going to be happy again.

Bob, you're starting to give me the shits. Listen to what I (and others) have to say.

Do NOT send the letter. Including the one to her parents.

She won't reply, and all it will do is end up making you more miserable. You'll spend every second chewing over the fact she hasn't replied.

Block her on Facebook and Twitter (but keep your account), and don't contact her.

I was never expecting her reply.

I still think I should send the one to her parents, though. They're nice people who deserve to be appreciated.

 

[Gaylord du Bois]

haha just reading through the earlier posts on this thread and it seems BOB is still up to this point ignoring peoples advice against the letter.

Some serious words BOB, without taking the piss. Most people on this thread have been through the situation you currently find yourself in. I'd be lying if I said I hadn't been heartbroken from my first love, I'll even admit to pathetically shedding tears and having some dreadful thoughts. Forget about the letter, time will heal all wounds. What you have to do is try not to post about it on an internet forum, if you must confide in friends and family, don't overdo it. Just looking at this thread you don't seem to be taking any advice on board, like I say, talk to friends and family but don't overdo it, the only person you'll listen too right now is yourself, all others can offer is a temporary lift. Do some exercise, go a run, the pain takes your mind off it. Run until it hurts so much it's the only thing that fills your mind, then you'll have peace at last.
I'll steal a few lines from the sunscreen song:
"Enjoy the power and beauty of your youth; oh nevermind; you will not
understand the power and beauty of your youth until they have faded.
But trust me, in 20 years you’ll look back at photos of yourself and
recall in a way you can’t grasp now how much possibility lay before"

Wow. I didn't expect a post so nice from you.

--

You know, I'm going to give it a few days before I decide whether to send the letter. I'll send her stuff back because I don't want anything to do with it. But I guess... I guess it's just time to move on.

Hopefully, I will have stabbed Liamby this time next week.

Wait for sign.

 

[Wheelsy]

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KZB-WAG9lSY[/youtube]

No video, but download this song: <a class="postlink" href="http://www.last.fm/music/Custard/_/Nervous+Breakdance" onclick="window.open(this.href);return false;">http://www.last.fm/music/Custard/_/Nervous+Breakdance</a>

 

[tueartsboots]

Okay, I think it's time to let this thread go. People are falling out and I don't want that.

I've written her a letter basically explaining that I still love her, while explaining that if we can't get back together as a couple then I don't think I could take the emotional rollercoaster of us being friends.

I've given her my phone number if she wants to talk to me again, and I've reminded her that if she looks in the right places then she'll find me on Facebook and Twitter.

I've written a note to her parents thanking them for having me so often and I'm going to speak to her friends and say it was nice knowing them - albeit briefly.

This is so sad and my heart is breaking, but I guess this just has to be done if I'm ever going to be happy again.

Bob, you're starting to give me the shits. Listen to what I (and others) have to say.

Do NOT send the letter. Including the one to her parents.

She won't reply, and all it will do is end up making you more miserable. You'll spend every second chewing over the fact she hasn't replied.

Block her on Facebook and Twitter (but keep your account), and don't contact her.

I wouldn't block on facebook tbh I'd be posting shit like "had a right laugh with _place girls/boys name here_ and she's/he's fit.
Then cry.

 

[Blue Smarties]

 

[Ticket For Schalke]

I'm pretty sure the parents wont care, they would have formed their opinion on you already.

 

[Dzeko's Right Boot]

haha just reading through the earlier posts on this thread and it seems BOB is still up to this point ignoring peoples advice against the letter.

Some serious words BOB, without taking the piss. Most people on this thread have been through the situation you currently find yourself in. I'd be lying if I said I hadn't been heartbroken from my first love, I'll even admit to pathetically shedding tears and having some dreadful thoughts. Forget about the letter, time will heal all wounds. What you have to do is try not to post about it on an internet forum, if you must confide in friends and family, don't overdo it. Just looking at this thread you don't seem to be taking any advice on board, like I say, talk to friends and family but don't overdo it, the only person you'll listen too right now is yourself, all others can offer is a temporary lift. Do some exercise, go a run, the pain takes your mind off it. Run until it hurts so much it's the only thing that fills your mind, then you'll have peace at last.
I'll steal a few lines from the sunscreen song:
"Enjoy the power and beauty of your youth; oh nevermind; you will not
understand the power and beauty of your youth until they have faded.
But trust me, in 20 years you’ll look back at photos of yourself and
recall in a way you can’t grasp now how much possibility lay before"

Wow. I didn't expect a post so nice from you.

--

You know, I'm going to give it a few days before I decide whether to send the letter. I'll send her stuff back because I don't want anything to do with it. But I guess... I guess it's just time to move on.

Hopefully, I will have stopped speaking to her totally by this time next week.

At least you're mulling it over. One more piece of advice: ignore your gut feelings at this moment in time. They will just be telling you to get back with the girl, which IS NOT the right thing.
If you ever want to talk, I'm known to give some cracking advice pal.

 

[MrOblivious]

I must be the exception to the rule here as I'm still friends with all my ex girlfriends haha.

Best thing to do is just give yourself space, there's no point in pondering over what could have been because you negated that eventuality when you split up.

Honestly, the worst thing to do at the moment would be to send a letter, message or even contact her for at least a month because it does neither of you any good.
Think of it this way, if you still care for her how will she feel if you send her contrasting letters and such, I imagine pretty confused and if anything I should imagine she would get quite annoyed with you.

I should charge by the letter for this shit

 

[Blue Smarties]