SWP's back said:
Ok but what you are not privvy to is the years of abuse, piss taking and pity that we have put up with.
If that was not bad enough, we win the jackpot and have some money. Our club then acts in a way that it believes is for the best for the club. next thing we know, the media hate us, Moyes et al conclude we have no class. Every time we draw or lose, fans of those clubs come on here, sit on their pedestal and lecture us on where we are going wrong, when our manager will be sacked and that our players are mercenaries. Do they come on here after a good game (ie Fulham)? Do they hell as like.
But I'm not passing judgement on your club at this time. If I chose to criticise your club, I would do so with respect for your history and all things Man City.
You may come on here and be reasonable but as you are the 2,734th poster to come on here and have a little go (such as being arrogant etc), then some will bite back as that is human nature.
OK, I accept that. But I'm trying to speak to a bigger issue - the idea that for some reason Spurs qualify for some pretty nasty posts. As I said, I don't mind you maintaining a rivalry, not wanting us to do well (although we don't feel the same way about you, which makes it difficult to have a rivalry), but all I'm asking is that it's done rationally (within the confines of football rationality, of course)
Football is tribal. Football supporters have no direct say in the way that their club is viewed by the media. Football fans are loyal and if 2,733 posters come on here and belittle us, even if the following guy is reasonable, the reaction will be venomous. as has been said, if you find that offensive, avoid looking. Rag cafe hate us, there are 1 or 2 posters that post without that hatred and are often commplimentary, but as football is football - I try and avoid looking as I know I will see the same thing over and over again. I will also never be able to effect their views as they are entrenched.
I sincerely haven't sought to belittle you (the fans as a whole) or your club - just to stop you (again, speaking collectively) doing that to my club.
It is the same here, our wagons have formed a circle and the defence mechanism has set in (we have been forced to take that position over the past 18 months) and I dare say the spuds would do the same in the same position. Meet me in a pub and talk sense, I would do the same back to you but when we get spud after spud, toffee after gooner coming on here when their teams have a good result, it gets a little tiresome.
I can understand a level of defensiveness if your club has been subject to criticism from all and sundry, but I haven't done that. I've criticised certain sections of your support, on this forum, who have lambasted us beyond what can be considered reasonable.
There have been a couple of people who have said that they don't believe we're very good. That's fine. In fact, that's great, because it keeps us honest. But I've also seen some outrageous comments and some frankly rather stupid comments that are nothing more than '
<profanity> Spurs'
And I would also add that I didn't start this thread. This thread was started by a Man City fan - 'Tottenham are better than
us'. The stuff that followed was a deluge of abuse directed at Spurs. It's uncalled for and I would criticise someone doing that about another club on a Spurs forum, I assure you.
There you go, you made me fire up my laptop and write a long post back though I still feel I have not done the sublect justice or given you an insight into how it feels to be City right now.
I wish you luck. I can sympathise to an extent. Although not as long as Man City's, Spurs too have had their time in the wilderness and I know that the hope that better things are just over the horizon can stir the passion. But we can do that without going for the jugular over each other's clubs, surely? We can co-exist and compete with each other without being barbarians, can't we?