That's not quite how I recall it. After we scored and before they equalized was a period where they suddenly started getting possession and we were no longer in control. While we were obviously screwed on the goal itself (and might have held on otherwise, as you say), we were no longer in control at that point of the game, and certainly not replicating the pressure we were creating at the start of the first half.But we were in control of the game after Grealish scored. We were passing it around with confidence and limiting United in midfield. The first half was even, United maybe just edged it, but we were much the better team after half-time. After the goal, we were set up to deal with United chasing the game and I fully believe we would have seen it out - maybe even nicked another on the break. We did everything we were supposed to do today but VAR decided to punish our players for correctly holding the offside line. At that moment everything changed. We were screwed out of it.