If you scrap VAR, Stones perfectly good goal would not stand and the Lino’s could just flag anytime they want too with no questions asked - personally I don’t want that.
Not necessarily. Before VAR, the decision-making by the linos was different, they would tend to keep the flag down if they weren't sure or if the players were "about level". Now they know with VAR as a crutch, they can rule it offsides and as long as they don't blow the whistle, it can be reviewed, then reversed to a goal. Before VAR, they would generally give the benefit of the doubt to the attacker in a situation like that. And if, before VAR, after a goal was given on a set piece like Stones goal, and then (lets say) a replay showed the goal scorer as being "marginally" offside, it wouldn't be a scandal because it was seen as being "close enough". It produces more controversy when a goal is disallowed after being given on the pitch, after a celebration, than if a goal was initially ruled offsides then given upon review. But in either scenario, it's not the same as a goal being given in the moment, without any review. As long as the attacker was "about level" with the defender, anotherwords, as long as "some" or "most" of the attacker's body was level with the farthest back point of the defender, generally that was seen as being "onside". Until VAR, that is, then they essentially redefined was offsides was, by applying microscopic analysis.
In the Stones goal, the organic moment of that was lost in the VAR nonsense. Yes, the goal was correctly counted upon review, but it wasn't as glorious of a moment given the delayed reaction. That was taken away due to VAR. So even though the correct decision was eventually given, it's not remotely the same thing of what that would have been like pre-VAR. In a VAR-less world, it probably would have been given as a goal, but maybe it wouldn't, as the defender's foot beyond the attacker would have hard to see in real-time. But at the same time, there are countless wrong decisions throughout a match that aren't even reviewable. i.e. who touched a ball last - corner kick / goal kick, etc that could lead to goals. And when you look at the amount of times VAR has robbed fans of joy, made the wrong call after a long review, one correct "reversal" like the Stones goal doesn't even remotely justify its existence.