tueartsboots said:
Samy, think about the way you treated the other 3. If you were a shit to them, move on. If you were kind, considerate and respectful then gently pursue.
She won't want to know if you were a bastard. Once a bastard, always a bastard.
Don't agree with that. It's true sometimes, BUT in my past I wasn't the Gent and found I had lots of ladies wanting the challenge of 'changing' me!
I think for Samy, if she hasn't told you to 'F off', but explained the situation that's a huge clue. It sounds like she's looking for reassurances that she'll not be treated like the others. So, back off and set about making her like being around you, show some loyalty and sooner or later, you will get a different answer from her.
I think she's testing you to see how you'll show her different than what she's been told or she'd have told you to "sling your hook, you man whore!!"!
Or something like that!