dozmin
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thanks for that lol
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Young Lads In Long Term Relationships
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Bigga
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dozmin said:thanks for that lol
Not meant to be a sleight, but it's true! In the young, it's fine at first, BUT when you grow into maturity, it's very VERY rare for the relationship to survive. Not impossible, mind.
I think there tends to be resentment from one to the other in the evolving of their partner or that their partner won't evolve, as well. This usually leads to cheating at some point. And it's not always the case that the truth will come out.
It's just life.
And it may not happen! But it's likely it will!
PMSL!! Life is difficult!
brooklandsblue2.0
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Too right Bigga, too many people have been watching too many romcoms and expect it all to be a bed of roses, people need to be realistic-affairs happen, if you think a drunken snog/shag from either party is grounds to end a marriage then your a mug.
bizzbo
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wow, cynical people don't even need to know someone to be able to predict their future.
Bigga
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stony said:My cousin met and married his wife within 6 weeks of meeting her and no she wasn't pregnant. They were both 18 at the time. They have been married for 32 years, have 4 kids, 3 grandchildren and are both very happy.
One of those rare stories I'm envious of.
I always thought I would be one of those, but, alas...
Still, I'm very happy where I am, 20 yrs down the line! I wouldn't have had anywhere near the delights and experiences I've had and married the woman I'm with!
So, it's bitter sweet!
Cheltblue
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brooklandsblue2.0 said:Too right Bigga, too many people have been watching too many romcoms and expect it all to be a bed of roses, people need to be realistic-affairs happen, if you think a drunken snog/shag from either party is grounds to end a marriage then your a mug.
But the same mug could also pertain to somebody who thinks that a drunken snog/shag is grounds for an trusty and respectful relationship!
TheMightyQuinn
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brooklandsblue2.0 said:Too right Bigga, too many people have been watching too many romcoms and expect it all to be a bed of roses, people need to be realistic-affairs happen, if you think a drunken snog/shag from either party is grounds to end a marriage then your a mug.
Affairs happen, yes - but it's not 100% guaranteed.
Personally I would class a 'drunken snog/shag' as grounds for divorce or termination of a relationship. Drunkeness, or any kind of intoxication, is not a valid excuse for anything in my eyes.
Cheltblue
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TheMightyQuinn said:brooklandsblue2.0 said:Too right Bigga, too many people have been watching too many romcoms and expect it all to be a bed of roses, people need to be realistic-affairs happen, if you think a drunken snog/shag from either party is grounds to end a marriage then your a mug.
Affairs happen, yes - but it's not 100% guaranteed.
Personally I would class a 'drunken snog/shag' as grounds for divorce or termination of a relationship. Drunkeness, or any kind of intoxication, is not a valid excuse for anything in my eyes.
Bang on.
Bigga
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Cheltblue said:TheMightyQuinn said:brooklandsblue2.0 said:Too right Bigga, too many people have been watching too many romcoms and expect it all to be a bed of roses, people need to be realistic-affairs happen, if you think a drunken snog/shag from either party is grounds to end a marriage then your a mug.
Affairs happen, yes - but it's not 100% guaranteed.
Personally I would class a 'drunken snog/shag' as grounds for divorce or termination of a relationship. Drunkeness, or any kind of intoxication, is not a valid excuse for anything in my eyes.
Bang on.
This is also very much true!
I have always viewed the consumption of alcohol that leads to sex as an excuse to do something you could not do without alibi(if you know what I mean!). That's why I don't drink. I've never wanted the crutch as an excuse for my behaviour...
Plus it tastes sh*t!