brooklandsblue2.0 said:bluealf said:brooklandsblue2.0 said:Too right Bigga, too many people have been watching too many romcoms and expect it all to be a bed of roses, people need to be realistic-affairs happen, if you think a drunken snog/shag from either party is grounds to end a marriage then your a mug.
Now when are we going to discuss your mother ?
Whenever you want my little snow leapord.
You're all gettin caught up on the drunk thing, what I was getting at is that in this day and age a one night stand or a few night stands is not grounds for divorce. If you think you're going to be married for 50+ years to someone and neiter of you will stray you're a deluded mug.
TheMightyQuinn said:Sounds like BB has been cheated on a few times and is using the old 'everyone does it' argument to disguise his feelings.
I dont think not cheating is too much to ask for in a girl friend and I'd hope that she felt the same regarding me.
It's a ludicrous argument to bring 'nature' into the equation in many respects as 'nature' to some degree is governed and controlled by humans due to civilization. It could well be argued that murder, brutality, rape and theft are 'natural' given that there are numerous precedents in the animal kingdom yet I'm not expecting to be reading a thread on here anytime soon forgiving a rapist as 'it's only natural'.
A man, or women, should know when to curb their desires and passions in view of the bigger picture. Would a night with Jessica Alba be good? Yep i'd love it but given the pain it would cause my partner coupled with the loss of said relationship is it really worth it?
A once said to friend of mine, female, that my epitaph should read 'a wank will suffice' and I stand by that.
quiet_riot said:Godfather said:define 'young'? im 24 and engaged. i cant stand the thought of the lifestyle you're implying young lads could have. i dont want to play the field, i dont want to get bladdered every weekend, i want someone to share my life with and have a settled lifestyle. 'Happiness is only real when shared'.
Are you my twin? I'm exactly the same...but 25! I love nothing better than spending an evening in with my missus.
Biggsy1 said:TheMightyQuinn said:Sounds like BB has been cheated on a few times and is using the old 'everyone does it' argument to disguise his feelings.
I dont think not cheating is too much to ask for in a girl friend and I'd hope that she felt the same regarding me.
It's a ludicrous argument to bring 'nature' into the equation in many respects as 'nature' to some degree is governed and controlled by humans due to civilization. It could well be argued that murder, brutality, rape and theft are 'natural' given that there are numerous precedents in the animal kingdom yet I'm not expecting to be reading a thread on here anytime soon forgiving a rapist as 'it's only natural'.
A man, or women, should know when to curb their desires and passions in view of the bigger picture. Would a night with Jessica Alba be good? Yep i'd love it but given the pain it would cause my partner coupled with the loss of said relationship is it really worth it?
A once said to friend of mine, female, that my epitaph should read 'a wank will suffice' and I stand by that.
Scenario?
Your say aged between 25 and 40 been married for several years love your wife but she just isn't putting out, has lost interest in it, youve tried loads of different things, massage's, romantic nights, talking about it, being a little more adventurous, but she hasn't put out for 6 months or more, would you cheat? A one night stand not in your home town and could get away with it?
TheMightyQuinn said:Biggsy1 said:TheMightyQuinn said:Sounds like BB has been cheated on a few times and is using the old 'everyone does it' argument to disguise his feelings.
I dont think not cheating is too much to ask for in a girl friend and I'd hope that she felt the same regarding me.
It's a ludicrous argument to bring 'nature' into the equation in many respects as 'nature' to some degree is governed and controlled by humans due to civilization. It could well be argued that murder, brutality, rape and theft are 'natural' given that there are numerous precedents in the animal kingdom yet I'm not expecting to be reading a thread on here anytime soon forgiving a rapist as 'it's only natural'.
A man, or women, should know when to curb their desires and passions in view of the bigger picture. Would a night with Jessica Alba be good? Yep i'd love it but given the pain it would cause my partner coupled with the loss of said relationship is it really worth it?
A once said to friend of mine, female, that my epitaph should read 'a wank will suffice' and I stand by that.
Scenario?
Your say aged between 25 and 40 been married for several years love your wife but she just isn't putting out, has lost interest in it, youve tried loads of different things, massage's, romantic nights, talking about it, being a little more adventurous, but she hasn't put out for 6 months or more, would you cheat? A one night stand not in your home town and could get away with it?
Personally, I wouldnt. My 'wank will suffice' comment was made regarding paying for sex but it stretches to infidelity in so much that in the face of sexual temptation I'm quite sure my feelings post wank would be much different to the feelings I was having prior to 'letting it all out'. I wouldnt want to hurt my wife despite the lack of sexual action.
I do concede I'm a naive and hopeless romantic but at the same time I dont think it's too much to ask that my partner doesnt get pissed and shag around.
TheMightyQuinn said:Sounds like BB has been cheated on a few times and is using the old 'everyone does it' argument to disguise his feelings.
I dont think not cheating is too much to ask for in a girl friend and I'd hope that she felt the same regarding me.
It's a ludicrous argument to bring 'nature' into the equation in many respects as 'nature' to some degree is governed and controlled by humans due to civilization. It could well be argued that murder, brutality, rape and theft are 'natural' given that there are numerous precedents in the animal kingdom yet I'm not expecting to be reading a thread on here anytime soon forgiving a rapist as 'it's only natural'.
A man, or women, should know when to curb their desires and passions in view of the bigger picture. Would a night with Jessica Alba be good? Yep i'd love it but given the pain it would cause my partner coupled with the loss of said relationship is it really worth it?
A once said to friend of mine, female, that my epitaph should read 'a wank will suffice' and I stand by that.
Biggsy1 said:TheMightyQuinn said:Biggsy1 said:TheMightyQuinn said:Sounds like BB has been cheated on a few times and is using the old 'everyone does it' argument to disguise his feelings.
I dont think not cheating is too much to ask for in a girl friend and I'd hope that she felt the same regarding me.
It's a ludicrous argument to bring 'nature' into the equation in many respects as 'nature' to some degree is governed and controlled by humans due to civilization. It could well be argued that murder, brutality, rape and theft are 'natural' given that there are numerous precedents in the animal kingdom yet I'm not expecting to be reading a thread on here anytime soon forgiving a rapist as 'it's only natural'.
A man, or women, should know when to curb their desires and passions in view of the bigger picture. Would a night with Jessica Alba be good? Yep i'd love it but given the pain it would cause my partner coupled with the loss of said relationship is it really worth it?
A once said to friend of mine, female, that my epitaph should read 'a wank will suffice' and I stand by that.
Scenario?
Your say aged between 25 and 40 been married for several years love your wife but she just isn't putting out, has lost interest in it, youve tried loads of different things, massage's, romantic nights, talking about it, being a little more adventurous, but she hasn't put out for 6 months or more, would you cheat? A one night stand not in your home town and could get away with it?
Personally, I wouldnt. My 'wank will suffice' comment was made regarding paying for sex but it stretches to infidelity in so much that in the face of sexual temptation I'm quite sure my feelings post wank would be much different to the feelings I was having prior to 'letting it all out'. I wouldnt want to hurt my wife despite the lack of sexual action.
I do concede I'm a naive and hopeless romantic but at the same time I dont think it's too much to ask that my partner doesnt get pissed and shag around.
Fair enough, I'm a romantic at heart and like to think I wouldn't, maybe I'll never know! But your right a decision made on a empty sack is a much more controlled decision!
brooklandsblue2.0 said:TheMightyQuinn said:Sounds like BB has been cheated on a few times and is using the old 'everyone does it' argument to disguise his feelings.
I dont think not cheating is too much to ask for in a girl friend and I'd hope that she felt the same regarding me.
It's a ludicrous argument to bring 'nature' into the equation in many respects as 'nature' to some degree is governed and controlled by humans due to civilization. It could well be argued that murder, brutality, rape and theft are 'natural' given that there are numerous precedents in the animal kingdom yet I'm not expecting to be reading a thread on here anytime soon forgiving a rapist as 'it's only natural'.
A man, or women, should know when to curb their desires and passions in view of the bigger picture. Would a night with Jessica Alba be good? Yep i'd love it but given the pain it would cause my partner coupled with the loss of said relationship is it really worth it?
A once said to friend of mine, female, that my epitaph should read 'a wank will suffice' and I stand by that.
Not at all TMQ. I have only ever had one long term relationship (i am counting 1 year + as long term not 6 months) and in that time I cheated all the time, as do all my mates. I have lots of female friends and they're all at it too. I'm just a realist. I like having sex and I am always safe with it, I just don't need a girl to complete me-sorry.