Young Lads In Long Term Relationships

[MCFC-alan88]

Too right Bigga, too many people have been watching too many romcoms and expect it all to be a bed of roses, people need to be realistic-affairs happen, if you think a drunken snog/shag from either party is grounds to end a marriage then your a mug.

Affairs happen, yes - but it's not 100% guaranteed.

Personally I would class a 'drunken snog/shag' as grounds for divorce or termination of a relationship. Drunkeness, or any kind of intoxication, is not a valid excuse for anything in my eyes.

Bang on.

This is also very much true!

I have always viewed the consumption of alcohol that leads to sex as an excuse to do something you could not do without alibi(if you know what I mean!). That's why I don't drink. I've never wanted the crutch as an excuse for my behaviour...

Plus it tastes sh*t!

I don't drink much, I'm 20 and I'm not like most of these guys, I dont want to go out and get lashed every weekend. I dont want to go out and touch some slag that can barely spell her own name. I'd be pretty damn happy if I could find someone to put up with me again.

 

[bluealf]

Too right Bigga, too many people have been watching too many romcoms and expect it all to be a bed of roses, people need to be realistic-affairs happen, if you think a drunken snog/shag from either party is grounds to end a marriage then your a mug.

Now when are we going to discuss your mother ?

 

[brooklandsblue2.0]

Too right Bigga, too many people have been watching too many romcoms and expect it all to be a bed of roses, people need to be realistic-affairs happen, if you think a drunken snog/shag from either party is grounds to end a marriage then your a mug.

Now when are we going to discuss your mother ?

Whenever you want my little snow leapord.

You're all gettin caught up on the drunk thing, what I was getting at is that in this day and age a one night stand or a few night stands is not grounds for divorce. If you think you're going to be married for 50+ years to someone and neiter of you will stray you're a deluded mug.

 

[Ally.P]

Too right Bigga, too many people have been watching too many romcoms and expect it all to be a bed of roses, people need to be realistic-affairs happen, if you think a drunken snog/shag from either party is grounds to end a marriage then your a mug.

Now when are we going to discuss your mother ?

Whenever you want my little snow leapord.

You're all gettin caught up on the drunk thing, what I was getting at is that in this day and age a one night stand or a few night stands is not grounds for divorce. If you think you're going to be married for 50+ years to someone and neiter of you will stray you're a deluded mug.

I'm a deluded mug. Anyone want to join me? :o)

 

[brooklandsblue2.0]

Too right Bigga, too many people have been watching too many romcoms and expect it all to be a bed of roses, people need to be realistic-affairs happen, if you think a drunken snog/shag from either party is grounds to end a marriage then your a mug.

Now when are we going to discuss your mother ?

Whenever you want my little snow leapord.

You're all gettin caught up on the drunk thing, what I was getting at is that in this day and age a one night stand or a few night stands is not grounds for divorce. If you think you're going to be married for 50+ years to someone and neiter of you will stray you're a deluded mug.

I'm a deluded mug. Anyone want to join me? :o)

nope.

 

[Blue4ever85]

Wake up and get the fuck out lads. You only live once and you're only young once. Young lads should be roaming the streets doing what they want when they want with who they want, with a common goal of fornicating with as many female specimens as we possibly can.

We've got fucking bags of time to be boring and settle down and fall in love and all that bollocks. We should walk the streets like free men, drinking, smoking, gambling, trying our luck and anything else we feel like doing whenever we like

Seize the moment

Finish your birds!

oh dear cant you get a long term girlfriend then ;0)

Just what I was thinking lol.

I met my bird when I was 17 and have beeen with her ever since (almost 6 years).

:D

 

[Blue4ever85]

define 'young'? im 24 and engaged. i cant stand the thought of the lifestyle you're implying young lads could have. i dont want to play the field, i dont want to get bladdered every weekend, i want someone to share my life with and have a settled lifestyle. 'Happiness is only real when shared'.

Gay ;p

 

[der bomber28]

I've been with my bird for nearly fifteen years now, were getting married in january and she is still as fit as the day I met her, so blows the woman let themselves go thing out of the water. We both do thing's independently as well as together and i've never been happier, I still get to follow my beloved blues and as she's a mad blue too get to enjoy her company at games aswell. I still see all my mates and socialise with them so personally i'm sorted, guess were the lucky ones.

 

[Biggsy1]

Wake up and get the fuck out lads. You only live once and you're only young once. Young lads should be roaming the streets doing what they want when they want with who they want, with a common goal of fornicating with as many female specimens as we possibly can.

We've got fucking bags of time to be boring and settle down and fall in love and all that bollocks. We should walk the streets like free men, drinking, smoking, gambling, trying our luck and anything else we feel like doing whenever we like

Seize the moment

Finish your birds!

oh dear cant you get a long term girlfriend then ;0)

Just what I was thinking lol.

I met my bird when I was 17 and have beeen with her ever since (almost 6 years).

:D

I'll give you one more year! Make the most of it!

 

[TheMightyQuinn]

Sounds like BB has been cheated on a few times and is using the old 'everyone does it' argument to disguise his feelings.

I dont think not cheating is too much to ask for in a girl friend and I'd hope that she felt the same regarding me.

It's a ludicrous argument to bring 'nature' into the equation in many respects as 'nature' to some degree is governed and controlled by humans due to civilization. It could well be argued that murder, brutality, rape and theft are 'natural' given that there are numerous precedents in the animal kingdom yet I'm not expecting to be reading a thread on here anytime soon forgiving a rapist as 'it's only natural'.

A man, or women, should know when to curb their desires and passions in view of the bigger picture. Would a night with Jessica Alba be good? Yep i'd love it but given the pain it would cause my partner coupled with the loss of said relationship is it really worth it?

A once said to friend of mine, female, that my epitaph should read 'a wank will suffice' and I stand by that.