I find no humor in the situation at all. For whatever inexplicable reason you support Putin - a fucking fascist killer over Zelensky - a man fighting for the freedom of his country. You seem not to grasp what's going on at all.
So here's an analogy to help out.
Say you own a two floor apartment. One day, the local drug king comes in, kills your son, and takes up residence in your upstairs room. WIth the help of neighbors, you raise enough money to hire a bodyguard and for now, the drug king is at bay, confined to upstairs.
Then the police arrive. Questions arise. Who is at fault here? Didn't the drug king warn you that you needed to move out? Wasn't the killing of your son, your own fault?
Let's make peace. Let's give the drug king ownership of your upstairs room and you agree to fire your bodyguard and not call the police again. Fair deal?