When I was much younger I got my first flat.... 1990s. I moved into it with my only piece of furniture - a settee, in a shopping trolley. No job, no quals, no future. The council threatened to take my flat unless i got a job, so I did.
I didnt look back, I saved and saved, went up the ladder, pensions, shares-saves, not spending money on vanity stuff, spending money on my kids instead... Education, sports, futures.
So, now being told I had it easy is like.. .fuckoff, I worked hard. And my kids are going to reap the rewards of my hard work. Even better, they like working for their own future.