I'm sorry, but that is a nonsensical argument, and one that smacks of craven appeasement.
The vast majority of people born and raised in the west, have this contempt for what they see as a backward, misogynistic, homophobic
cult that fails to project it's more sane precepts to any significant degree. All of us live and work amongst muslims, we have friends and acquaintances
that are regular features of our lives, but, as these atrocities are not of their doing, we do not go out and murder them in reprisal.
What we do is censure and ridicule; moderate muslims except this, radical fruitcakes do not, but contempt for their religion is sacrosanct in my book,
and suggesting that we should moderate our true inner feelings to assuage the sensibilities of would be murderers is very dangerous indeed.