Blue Tooth said:Seosa said:Toma; A bit, pal. Fragile but better. I am glad I started it tbh, I've always been an upfront person but reading other stories puts mine into context. I'm immensely grateful to everybody because I really didn't want to be seen as attention seeking.
Pom; Another story that makes you think, bud. To give information like that takes guts, and if I did mine it'd make things clearer but I don't have the nerve.
I'm just glad the response was positive.
Seosa. Don't measure your own question/life circumstances against someone else. It can be a way of closing down again.
It can lead to thoughts in your head like "I'm not important enough, other people are worse off than me, what am i moaning about,pull yourself together."
Negative mind talk all of it. Does not help.
The truth is that if you feel shit you feel shit and you have to find the best way to handle your situation. Acceptance is the start. Be real. Be honest. This is where I am.Everyone has to face challenges. The point that you were asking about ...well for me it is learning to live with myself. Nothing out there in the world has damaged me anywhere near as much as the negative shit I told myself in my life. Change that and you can change everything.
Blue Tooth said:Seosa said:Toma; A bit, pal. Fragile but better. I am glad I started it tbh, I've always been an upfront person but reading other stories puts mine into context. I'm immensely grateful to everybody because I really didn't want to be seen as attention seeking.
Pom; Another story that makes you think, bud. To give information like that takes guts, and if I did mine it'd make things clearer but I don't have the nerve.
I'm just glad the response was positive.
Seosa. Don't measure your own question/life circumstances against someone else. It can be a way of closing down again.
It can lead to thoughts in your head like "I'm not important enough, other people are worse off than me, what am i moaning about,pull yourself together."
Negative mind talk all of it. Does not help.
The truth is that if you feel shit you feel shit and you have to find the best way to handle your situation. Acceptance is the start. Be real. Be honest. This is where I am.Everyone has to face challenges. The point that you were asking about ...well for me it is learning to live with myself. Nothing out there in the world has damaged me anywhere near as much as the negative shit I told myself in my life. Change that and you can change everything.
racingeye said:Blue Tooth said:Seosa said:Toma; A bit, pal. Fragile but better. I am glad I started it tbh, I've always been an upfront person but reading other stories puts mine into context. I'm immensely grateful to everybody because I really didn't want to be seen as attention seeking.
Pom; Another story that makes you think, bud. To give information like that takes guts, and if I did mine it'd make things clearer but I don't have the nerve.
I'm just glad the response was positive.
Seosa. Don't measure your own question/life circumstances against someone else. It can be a way of closing down again.
It can lead to thoughts in your head like "I'm not important enough, other people are worse off than me, what am i moaning about,pull yourself together."
Negative mind talk all of it. Does not help.
The truth is that if you feel shit you feel shit and you have to find the best way to handle your situation. Acceptance is the start. Be real. Be honest. This is where I am.Everyone has to face challenges. The point that you were asking about ...well for me it is learning to live with myself. Nothing out there in the world has damaged me anywhere near as much as the negative shit I told myself in my life. Change that and you can change everything.
i agree with this too
some people might look at my problems earlier and say " is that all??? i've got worse than that and im ok" thats probably true yeah, but thats because they're YOUR problems and these are MINE. you might have the physical and emotional strength to be able to deal with them..i certainly don't
Seosa, whatever the problem no matter how big/small, whatever it is, it's troubling YOU and thats what you need to try and sort out. You've taken the first step by starting this thread, second step in my opinion is just like a few others have said, talk to someone on here that you like/trust and just see what help and advice is given and go from there.
I wish you all the best mate I really do
pominoz said:We are trying to tell him we (some of us) have been there, and offering advice.
Negative advice? my arse.
I may get a (another) warning, but, fuck off.
You have some serious anger management issues.pominoz said:Blue Tooth said:Seosa said:Toma; A bit, pal. Fragile but better. I am glad I started it tbh, I've always been an upfront person but reading other stories puts mine into context. I'm immensely grateful to everybody because I really didn't want to be seen as attention seeking.
Pom; Another story that makes you think, bud. To give information like that takes guts, and if I did mine it'd make things clearer but I don't have the nerve.
I'm just glad the response was positive.
Seosa. Don't measure your own question/life circumstances against someone else. It can be a way of closing down again.
It can lead to thoughts in your head like "I'm not important enough, other people are worse off than me, what am i moaning about,pull yourself together."
Negative mind talk all of it. Does not help.
The truth is that if you feel shit you feel shit and you have to find the best way to handle your situation. Acceptance is the start. Be real. Be honest. This is where I am.Everyone has to face challenges. The point that you were asking about ...well for me it is learning to live with myself. Nothing out there in the world has damaged me anywhere near as much as the negative shit I told myself in my life. Change that and you can change everything.
We are trying to tell him we (some of us) have been there, and offering advice.
Negative advice? my arse.
I may get a (another) warning, but, fuck off.
gordondaviesmoustache said:You have some serious anger management issues.pominoz said:Blue Tooth said:Seosa. Don't measure your own question/life circumstances against someone else. It can be a way of closing down again.
It can lead to thoughts in your head like "I'm not important enough, other people are worse off than me, what am i moaning about,pull yourself together."
Negative mind talk all of it. Does not help.
The truth is that if you feel shit you feel shit and you have to find the best way to handle your situation. Acceptance is the start. Be real. Be honest. This is where I am.Everyone has to face challenges. The point that you were asking about ...well for me it is learning to live with myself. Nothing out there in the world has damaged me anywhere near as much as the negative shit I told myself in my life. Change that and you can change everything.
We are trying to tell him we (some of us) have been there, and offering advice.
Negative advice? my arse.
I may get a (another) warning, but, fuck off.
Kun Aguero said:Chin up fella, it's friday so get full of Budweiser and smash some tight little pussys.