wayne71 said:
Think you got the wrong end of the stick there bud.
Wayne,
I think I understand what you are saying and I tend to agree on the whole.
However, on a forum it is difficult to express that there is a way through.
Some posters use the "there is always somebody worse off" and some are just expressing their own stories.
The real stories are much more valuable than 3rd hand examples but still not ideal, but again,a forum is not an ideal format.
The point stands all the same, we cannot compare our pain to that of somebody else and I think Pom and the others who have posted real life experiences know this.