Nebuchadnezzar
Well-Known Member
Keep up the good work with University too. That can provide a welcome distraction, plus you never know who you may meet there! I failed my first year due to a double whammy of family bereavements, both of my Nannas died within 5 months of each other. I was living at home, so life wasn't great and it was really hard to see both of my parents in a bad way. Everyone in that year of Uni was a total fucking arsehole, never met so many backstabbing bastards in my life.
As mentioned, I failed that year quite badly. During the summer I was stuck in a shite job at the local Spar, getting bollocked every day for shit I didn't do (new guy syndrome I guess). I was left with the choice of staying in that job for the foreseeable future or going back to Uni and restarting the year. I know its a no brainer but I was scared to go back, my confidence was absolutely ruined and I worried that people would think I was thick. I got a few snidey texts from 'mates' that summer, questioning my ability to pass.
I chose to go back, and i'm now in my third year. I'm also engaged to a lovely girl that I met in my failed first year, the one decent person. Had our ups and downs on the way, but it happens. What i'm trying to say, is that even when you feel shit and like nothing is worth it, you HAVE to keep going. Even if it hurts or frightens you. Because it will get better eventually.
As mentioned, I failed that year quite badly. During the summer I was stuck in a shite job at the local Spar, getting bollocked every day for shit I didn't do (new guy syndrome I guess). I was left with the choice of staying in that job for the foreseeable future or going back to Uni and restarting the year. I know its a no brainer but I was scared to go back, my confidence was absolutely ruined and I worried that people would think I was thick. I got a few snidey texts from 'mates' that summer, questioning my ability to pass.
I chose to go back, and i'm now in my third year. I'm also engaged to a lovely girl that I met in my failed first year, the one decent person. Had our ups and downs on the way, but it happens. What i'm trying to say, is that even when you feel shit and like nothing is worth it, you HAVE to keep going. Even if it hurts or frightens you. Because it will get better eventually.