That’s simply not true.
When pulled over for a traffic violation, EVERY ADULT knows that their job is to help the officer know they are not a threat to them. 99.9999999% of traffic violations are just like they are in the UK, but no one cares about those, and those are not the ones highlighted in training, because they don’t need to be trained in minute detail, laws understood to the last period, etc.
What I have tried to explain is that what you see on TV are the ones where there is non-compliance, things turn ugly, and end with a fatality. This is not the norm.
When stopped by the police, do you run? Do you pull a knife? Swing a bat? Or, do you say “Yes, Officer. No, Officer. have a nice day, Officer.” and go on your way, because you WERE speeding?!
If stopped while carrying in Illinois, it is my duty to calmly inform the officer at my earliest opportunity, while assuring him I am compliant, willing to keep complying with any commands, and am not looking to escalate the incident simply because I have a weapon in me.
As I said above, window down, hands visible, no quick or furtive movements. “Officer, it is my legal duty to inform you I am armed. How would you like me to proceed?”
That immediately shows him compliance, understanding of the law and the predicament he is in, and that I have shown myself to open to his commands.
The next question is nearly always, “please tell me where the weapon is, but do not use your hands to show me.”
“Right hip. Glock 19, holstered under my shirt.”
At this point, he may ask for back up before we go any further and just ask me to stay in the car with my hands visible on the steering wheel while he waits for back up.
“Thank you. Do you have your license and registration available for me?”
“Drivers license is in my right pocket, registration is in the glove box”
“OK, with your right hand, please slowly reach over to the glove box, open it and retrieve your registration.”
I would comply.
“Now, turn towards me so I can see your hands and your right pocket. If possible, reach into your right pocket without lifting your shirt and take out your DL.”
The cop should already know who I am, because he has run my car while he was pulling me over before he got out of his own car. The license and registration confirm the information. From there, it’s a matter of a ticket or not, just like always!
Like I said, I’ve been trained, multiple times, by both the feds and the state, and know how to pose zero threat to the police. Others get excitable, feeling like they’re in trouble, even though they’re not. But, no record of CCW while armed is an offence and not a pretty little one, so THAT creates even more excitement and threat, of course!
Guns are a fact of life over here, but most people don’t have them, never come into contact with them, and never even think about them, or even if they do have them, don’t talk about them. I have never mentioned them to my neighbors, nor have they me. It’s something you discuss with friends, just like cars, football, etc. Some have them, others don’t. My two best friends do and we enjoy going to the range to use them and improve our skills...Two handed, single handed, strong hand, weak hand, 2m, 5m, 7m, 10m, three shot drills, two center mass and one to the head drills, timed drills, emergency reload drills, administrative reload drills, “tap, rack, ready” misfire drills, etc, etc, etc...
Just like other aspects of my life, I want to be prepared for all eventualities, and trained for the possible consequences. I take my training seriously, because I know that if I ever draw my weapon I have to be prepared to use it. I never want to have to draw it...EVER. I have one locked by my bedside and two in the safe. The one by the bedside is ready to use within about 3-5 seconds. In Illinois, the law is that a gun can not be used to protect property, only personal safety. So, if someone broke into my house, I can’t shoot someone for trying to steal my TV. However, if I went downstairs to stop them, and they threatened me inside my home, I can now shoot them. If someone breaks in downstairs, I’m not going downstairs. My wife and kids are upstairs and the gun is to protect us, not kill burglars. I would warn them I am armed and they need to leave now as the police have already been called (we live less than a mile from the station) and if they attempt to come upstairs they WILL BE KILLED.
MOST burglars are opportunists and once disturbed have no desire to stick around, especially in America. I doubt they would even leave with anything, as there is very little of any significant value downstairs, and certainly nothing worth dying for!