"It just sort of happened mate, you know i didn't mean for it to but you know what it's like we had a few drinks and it was just an accident, i feel like shit about it now. It's not like you're together or nothing, you know i would never have done anything if you was"liamctid said:AntonDonJuan said:Men do not make friends with girls unless they have done, intend to, or are hoping on sleeping with the girl.
Why the fuck would you want to be friends with a girl when all they do is moan about everything they can do and are the opposite of men.
Like i said, your mate is 99.9% already poking her, and don't hold out hope on that 0.1%, because if by chance they haven't already done it, you can bet your life he won't think twice about giving her one
Yeah, if he hasn't then he would.
"...well no offence mate, but it's not exactly like you two are together anymore and I've always sorta liked her"
fact.AntonDonJuan said:Your mates being a twat, and will most probably slip her one given the opportunity.
Nail one of her mates just in case
That's the thing though. He isn't like that. I mean don't get me wrong, he probably wants to nail her. But i don't think he would. He's got a fair few girls who he's friendly with but doesn't have anything more with them and she was pretty good mates with her ex's best mate. So that's why it's difficult to judge.AntonDonJuan said:"It just sort of happened mate, you know i didn't mean for it to but you know what it's like we had a few drinks and it was just an accident, i feel like shit about it now. It's not like you're together or nothing, you know i would never have done anything if you was"liamctid said:Yeah, if he hasn't then he would.
"...well no offence mate, but it's not exactly like you two are together anymore and I've always sorta liked her"
Blah blah blah.
Nail her first, deal with the consequences after, that's what your mate will be thinking
AntonDonJuan said:"It just sort of happened mate, you know i didn't mean for it to but you know what it's like we had a few drinks and it was just an accident, i feel like shit about it now. It's not like you're together or nothing, you know i would never have done anything if you was"liamctid said:Yeah, if he hasn't then he would.
"...well no offence mate, but it's not exactly like you two are together anymore and I've always sorta liked her"
Blah blah blah.
Nail her first, deal with the consequences after, that's what your mate will be thinking
Iknow what your saying, but you need to look at these things from the outside without a biased view on things.ono said:That's the thing though. He isn't like that. I mean don't get me wrong, he probably wants to nail her. But i don't think he would. He's got a fair few girls who he's friendly with but doesn't have anything more with them and she was pretty good mates with her ex's best mate. So that's why it's difficult to judge.
Don't get me wrong, if someone else on here needed the same advice and told the same story i'd automatically presume the mate was nobbing her. Haha. But yeah, it's harder to judge when your involved.
This is the thing. She only met him around 2 months ago, but she wanted to meet up with him even before she knew what he looked like. So i still don't really know whether or not i'm being paranoid. I think i've ready one too many Dear Deadrie's to make a proper assumption.The Shrike said:Mate
Alls you gotta do is ask yourself a simple question. Why do she and your mate want to be so pally?
Most people above have answered the question from your mate's point of view.
For her point of view there are only 2 possible reasons. One - she needs the attention of other blokes. Two she ain't 100% about you and is keeping her options open.
IMO you have a problem here, because taking this on may affect both relationships. Only solution is to sit her down and ask her to be honest with you about why she want's to hang with your mate.