I need some girl advice

Bin it...she's shagging your mate...who you you bin too for banging her and not comparing notes.
 
Right seem em both separately tonight. Had tea with the girl, who looked me dead in the eye at one point and said 'I love you so much' which is rare for her. We had a decent night, but then fell out at the end. Weird day really because we proper fell out via text earlier on, which lead to her asking me to go to hers for some tea.

Anyway fell out over me leaving her to sort it out with my mate. Apparently i was selling her out, although it was her who pressed me into phoning my mate to sort it. Unfortunately for her, during the phone call he offered to pick me up and have a chat, so i obliged. Anyway had a bit of a tiff with the girl at the door and then hopped into my mates car.

Broke the ice pretty well, and was fairly relieved that he saw it from the same point of view as me. In other words he thought it would look odd to other people. His opinion is she's either trying to wind me up, or she's genuinely just trying really hard to get a new mate (her best mates went off to different uni's in Nottingham and Sunderland).

But yeah he was keen to put a stop to it really.

So all in all it's been a tiring day. She seemed shocked when i pointed out that it looked wrong. Not even like an 'acting shocked'. It was pretty real.

But anyway, time to keep a close eye on things. I'll keep you all posted. Cheers for the good advice from Ricster, Toma, Pidge etc...

Cheers for the laughs from everyone else.
 
ono said:
Right seem em both separately tonight. Had tea with the girl, who looked me dead in the eye at one point and said 'I love you so much' which is rare for her. We had a decent night, but then fell out at the end. Weird day really because we proper fell out via text earlier on, which lead to her asking me to go to hers for some tea.

Anyway fell out over me leaving her to sort it out with my mate. Apparently i was selling her out, although it was her who pressed me into phoning my mate to sort it. Unfortunately for her, during the phone call he offered to pick me up and have a chat, so i obliged. Anyway had a bit of a tiff with the girl at the door and then hopped into my mates car.

Broke the ice pretty well, and was fairly relieved that he saw it from the same point of view as me. In other words he thought it would look odd to other people. His opinion is she's either trying to wind me up, or she's genuinely just trying really hard to get a new mate (her best mates went off to different uni's in Nottingham and Sunderland).

But yeah he was keen to put a stop to it really.

So all in all it's been a tiring day. She seemed shocked when i pointed out that it looked wrong. Not even like an 'acting shocked'. It was pretty real.

But anyway, time to keep a close eye on things. I'll keep you all posted. Cheers for the good advice from Ricster, Toma, Pidge etc...

Cheers for the laughs from everyone else.
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tell him you saw the pregnancy test result kit in your bin and that you haven't slept with her for 2 months...
 
my dear friend. Nothing muddies the soul quite like affairs of the heart.

You asked for advice. In my experience you know already but are just unsure

1) She kept the date with your mate secret. She has designs on him. Beit for his attentiveness, beit for the use of his passenger seat. Either way it is disrespectful at the very least.

2) He mentioned it to you with the line - didn't she tell you. He is not shagging her yet ! He needed to find out if knowledge of their arrangement would be shared by her with you. It wasn't. It will reinforce his opinion that she is acting as a single female rather than the troubled ex of a mate. That will give him a green light that future actions will happen without your knowledge if he plots this formally with her.

3) It is my opinion that they will eventually betray you should you not act.

4) Tackle your mate first. Remove any doubt from his mind that this is unacceptable and that she is still very much on your radar.

5) Be prepared to loose them both.

6) Be prepared to move on.

7) Take driving lessons. Even if the option of getting a car is not there for you yet.

8) You sound like you are young. Your lack of experience in these matters points to you having many years ahead.

9) Know that in those years ahead you will have many more "affairs of the heart". That means more textbook intercourse for you my.

10) Force a smile about this whole sorry episode now because I guarantee you you won't need to force that smile in the future. You will genuinely look back and see yourself in a different light and laugh. ( This point is hard to get right now but it will happen )

11) Keep the faith - There will be few constants in your life. City is one of them.


Good luck !
 
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ALL OUR LIVES said:
my dear friend. Nothing muddies the soul quite like affairs of the heart.

You asked for advice. In my experience you know already but are just unsure

1) She kept the date with your mate secret. She has designs on him. Beit for his attentiveness, beit for the use of his passenger seat. Either way it is disrespectful at the very least.

2) He mentioned it to you with the line - didn't she tell you. He is not shagging her yet ! He needed to find out if knowledge of their arrangement would be shared by her with you. It wasn't. It will reinforce his opinion that she is acting as a single female rather than the troubled ex of a mate. That will give him a green light that future actions will happen without your knowledge if he plots this formally with her.

3) It is my opinion that they will eventually betray you should you not act.

4) Tackle your mate first. Remove any doubt from his mind that this is unacceptable and that she is still very much on your radar.

5) Be prepared to loose them both.

6) Be prepared to move on.

7) Take driving lessons. Even if the option of getting a car is not there for you yet.

8) You sound like you are young. Your lack of experience in these matters points to you having many years ahead.

9) Know that in those years ahead you will have many more "affairs of the heart". That means more textbook intercourse for you my.

10) Force a smile about this whole sorry episode now because I guarantee you you won't need to force that smile in the future. You will genuinely look back and see yourself in a different light and laugh. ( This point is hard to get right now but it will happen )

11) Keep the faith - There will be few constants in your life. City is one of them.


Good luck !
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Great advice.

Oh and smash her back doors in before you call it quits.

Edit - You should probably smash his back doors in as well.
 
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