I need some girl advice

[x_BluePrincess_x]

shes obviously playing you both off against each other.
Tbh i think ur best stayin away from her,

 

[BimboBob]

Nail your mate. That will confuse her. She will then join in and bonjour, a threesome.

 

[bluemoon32]

I've only read the thread title but has anyone advocated 'shag her in the arse' yet?

Pretty much everyone lol

 

[Ricster]

Right seem em both separately tonight. Had tea with the girl, who looked me dead in the eye at one point and said 'I love you so much' which is rare for her. We had a decent night, but then fell out at the end. Weird day really because we proper fell out via text earlier on, which lead to her asking me to go to hers for some tea.

Anyway fell out over me leaving her to sort it out with my mate. Apparently i was selling her out, although it was her who pressed me into phoning my mate to sort it. Unfortunately for her, during the phone call he offered to pick me up and have a chat, so i obliged. Anyway had a bit of a tiff with the girl at the door and then hopped into my mates car.

Broke the ice pretty well, and was fairly relieved that he saw it from the same point of view as me. In other words he thought it would look odd to other people. His opinion is she's either trying to wind me up, or she's genuinely just trying really hard to get a new mate (her best mates went off to different uni's in Nottingham and Sunderland).

But yeah he was keen to put a stop to it really.

So all in all it's been a tiring day. She seemed shocked when i pointed out that it looked wrong. Not even like an 'acting shocked'. It was pretty real.

But anyway, time to keep a close eye on things. I'll keep you all posted. Cheers for the good advice from Ricster, Toma, Pidge etc...

Cheers for the laughs from everyone else.

Ono, just read your post and the part that got me was this;

Unfortunately for her, during the phone call he offered to pick me up and have a chat, so i obliged. Anyway had a bit of a tiff with the girl at the door and then hopped into my mates car.

Surely if you have strong feelings for the girl then she should be youre number 1 priority. Not your mate. You can catch up with him another time. She needs you right now pal, and wants the feeling of being loved. Sorry if this sounds critical, but you leaving her to go and talk to your mate will only put doubts in her mind as to where she stands in your list of priorities.

I've recntly been there with my gf, as Lucky Toma knows, and I sacrificed everything for her because i love her. Dont do all the romantic stuff like meals or the cinema, go bowling or do laser quest, something a bit out of the norm for both of you. You'll be surprised how much fun you'll both have and how much closer it'll bring you both together. You need to try and reignite what you had at the start of your relationship.

Thats the things with relationships, they can become stagnent, but as long as your partner realises your making a sustained effort and that she is your number 1 priority you both should get things back on track. If your with your girl again, and your mate tries to take you away for a chat, or anything similar, make the right decision, or think how you'd feel if she did the same to you.

Good luck buddy.

 

[GStar]

Nail your mate. That will confuse her. She will then join in and bonjour, a threesome.

Deadly serious. Best advice in this thread. Bum your male friend, show him who's 'boss'.

 

[ono]

Right seem em both separately tonight. Had tea with the girl, who looked me dead in the eye at one point and said 'I love you so much' which is rare for her. We had a decent night, but then fell out at the end. Weird day really because we proper fell out via text earlier on, which lead to her asking me to go to hers for some tea.

Anyway fell out over me leaving her to sort it out with my mate. Apparently i was selling her out, although it was her who pressed me into phoning my mate to sort it. Unfortunately for her, during the phone call he offered to pick me up and have a chat, so i obliged. Anyway had a bit of a tiff with the girl at the door and then hopped into my mates car.

Broke the ice pretty well, and was fairly relieved that he saw it from the same point of view as me. In other words he thought it would look odd to other people. His opinion is she's either trying to wind me up, or she's genuinely just trying really hard to get a new mate (her best mates went off to different uni's in Nottingham and Sunderland).

But yeah he was keen to put a stop to it really.

So all in all it's been a tiring day. She seemed shocked when i pointed out that it looked wrong. Not even like an 'acting shocked'. It was pretty real.

But anyway, time to keep a close eye on things. I'll keep you all posted. Cheers for the good advice from Ricster, Toma, Pidge etc...

Cheers for the laughs from everyone else.

Ono, just read your post and the part that got me was this;

Unfortunately for her, during the phone call he offered to pick me up and have a chat, so i obliged. Anyway had a bit of a tiff with the girl at the door and then hopped into my mates car.

Surely if you have strong feelings for the girl then she should be youre number 1 priority. Not your mate. You can catch up with him another time. She needs you right now pal, and wants the feeling of being loved. Sorry if this sounds critical, but you leaving her to go and talk to your mate will only put doubts in her mind as to where she stands in your list of priorities.

I've recntly been there with my gf, as Lucky Toma knows, and I sacrificed everything for her because i love her. Dont do all the romantic stuff like meals or the cinema, go bowling or do laser quest, something a bit out of the norm for both of you. You'll be surprised how much fun you'll both have and how much closer it'll bring you both together. You need to try and reignite what you had at the start of your relationship.

Thats the things with relationships, they can become stagnent, but as long as your partner realises your making a sustained effort and that she is your number 1 priority you both should get things back on track. If your with your girl again, and your mate tries to take you away for a chat, or anything similar, make the right decision, or think how you'd feel if she did the same to you.

Good luck buddy.

Cheers mate.

That's the thing. I was perfectly happy to just phone him when i got home from her house. He'd text me a few times, but i didn't have my phone on me. So she text him and told him to phone her and she'd pass me the phone. So he did. I didn't know until she passed me the phone, so i had to speak to him. She seemed so keen for me to sort it out that it didn't even cross my mind that she'd be pissed off. Anyway, it seems fairly sorted.

I tend to think it was pretty innocent and so does my mate, although he was concerned over how it looked from the outside. He said he'd been wanting to have a word with her about it all basically just to explain his feelings on it, as he was seeing it from the same point of view as me.

Anyway, there'll probably be another twist or turn somewhere along the line, but for now it's all good.

Cheers mate.

 

[Ricster]

Ono, just read your post and the part that got me was this;



Surely if you have strong feelings for the girl then she should be youre number 1 priority. Not your mate. You can catch up with him another time. She needs you right now pal, and wants the feeling of being loved. Sorry if this sounds critical, but you leaving her to go and talk to your mate will only put doubts in her mind as to where she stands in your list of priorities.

I've recntly been there with my gf, as Lucky Toma knows, and I sacrificed everything for her because i love her. Dont do all the romantic stuff like meals or the cinema, go bowling or do laser quest, something a bit out of the norm for both of you. You'll be surprised how much fun you'll both have and how much closer it'll bring you both together. You need to try and reignite what you had at the start of your relationship.

Thats the things with relationships, they can become stagnent, but as long as your partner realises your making a sustained effort and that she is your number 1 priority you both should get things back on track. If your with your girl again, and your mate tries to take you away for a chat, or anything similar, make the right decision, or think how you'd feel if she did the same to you.

Good luck buddy.

Cheers mate.

That's the thing. I was perfectly happy to just phone him when i got home from her house. He'd text me a few times, but i didn't have my phone on me. So she text him and told him to phone her and she'd pass me the phone. So he did. I didn't know until she passed me the phone, so i had to speak to him. She seemed so keen for me to sort it out that it didn't even cross my mind that she'd be pissed off. Anyway, it seems fairly sorted.

I tend to think it was pretty innocent and so does my mate, although he was concerned over how it looked from the outside. He said he'd been wanting to have a word with her about it all basically just to explain his feelings on it, as he was seeing it from the same point of view as me.

Anyway, there'll probably be another twist or turn somewhere along the line, but for now it's all good.

Cheers mate.

Im glad to hear it. Nothing worse than emotional torture. Treat her the way you want to be treated and everything will be A ok.

 

[JULES]

Surely if you have strong feelings for the girl then she should be youre number 1 priority. Not your mate. You can catch up with him another time. She needs you right now pal, and wants the feeling of being loved. Sorry if this sounds critical, but you leaving her to go and talk to your mate will only put doubts in her mind as to where she stands in your list of priorities.

I've recntly been there with my gf, as Lucky Toma knows, and I sacrificed everything for her because i love her. Dont do all the romantic stuff like meals or the cinema, go bowling or do laser quest, something a bit out of the norm for both of you. You'll be surprised how much fun you'll both have and how much closer it'll bring you both together. You need to try and reignite what you had at the start of your relationship.

Thats the things with relationships, they can become stagnent, but as long as your partner realises your making a sustained effort and that she is your number 1 priority you both should get things back on track. If your with your girl again, and your mate tries to take you away for a chat, or anything similar, make the right decision, or think how you'd feel if she did the same to you.

Good luck buddy.[/quote]
sorry but you couldnt be more wrong!!!!!!!

 

[skillman]

For starters, your 'mate' is a dick. What kind of 'mate' meets his other mate's ex-girlfriend so soon after they break up?

Secondly, just sit the girl down, you can't let 2 years of your life slip away because of some idiot tryna pull her on the sly! Ask her who she wants out the two and tell her that if it isn't you then it's probably best if you two don't see each other at all anymore.

Good luck, girls are a pain in the arse.

 

[york away to this!]

...ffs - she's just way too much mither. Just dump her immediately and go and get another one who doesn't give you grief.

....failing that you could grovel round her feet like a pathetic puppy begging her for some commitment and surety - then watch as she continues to bang your mates, your brother, your dad ....(oh and can you send me her number? - she sounds well up for it)