I need some girl advice

[SambaBoys]

Advice from a female. It really is as simple as this:

If she wants to be with you – she will be. If she isn’t..... she doesn’t want to be.

 

[Didsbury Dave]

Advice from a female. It really is as simple as this:

If she wants to be with you – she will be. If she isn’t..... she doesn’t want to be.

On the money, Samba Boys.

I've seen this many many times before. I've even been in your shoes and learnt hard lessons,ono.

Thing is, you won't listen to advice because you want her.

That's undertandable - everyone does the same in your situation.

Just learn a lesson - like I did - when it all comes crashing down.

I feel for you ono. But you are fooling yourself.

 

[SambaBoys]

Advice from a female. It really is as simple as this:

If she wants to be with you – she will be. If she isn’t..... she doesn’t want to be.

On the money, Samba Boys.

*Takes a Bow* .......

Women are not complex creatures – excuses are there because they are not sure.

 

[johnny on the spot]

On the money, Samba Boys.

*Takes a Bow* .......

Women are not complex creatures – excuses are there because they are not sure.

So, 'smash her back door in' pretty much stands up.

 

[smudgedj]

You haven't spilit up.

Your relationship continues but she can now see other people, as she is doing.

She's doing pretty well out of this.

You're following her like a lapdog on the off-chance she "decides" you can be her number one. Probably depends on who she gets on with your mate, to be honest. Or whether someone else comes along.

I'm sorry to be brutal, ono.

All relationships have a balance of power. In this one she holds all the cards. She is using that to make you do her bidding.

If you love her then walk away and tell her either she's your girlfriend or not. But I'm sure you're afraid that she'll let you go if you do that. She probably will in reality but than means the relationship was never going to work. Belive me, if you love someone properly you won't risk them walking away.

At the moment you are playing right into her hands. Wake up and smell the coffee. "i'll decide if I want you on the 21st November?" I'd tell her to fuck off because that's pathetic, arrogant and assumptive.

Girls aren't wierd. This one is playing you like a lapdog and you're falling for it.

Dave, thanks for the advice, but it's not quite like that. It's difficult to explain but it's just not. Thanks though.

Sorry to disappoint you but it's exactly like that, Dave has it nailed; you just don't want to see it.

 

[Scottyboi]

Just for you ono
[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x7MCbis75wk[/youtube]

 

[johnny on the spot]

Dave, thanks for the advice, but it's not quite like that. It's difficult to explain but it's just not. Thanks though.

Sorry to disappoint you but it's exactly like that, Dave has it nailed; you just don't want to see it.

Dave's on the cash. This chick's a viper with nipples on her front and cock on the brain.

 

[BlueHammer85]

go single

and go out with your mates, join a gym, join a footie team, get some driving lessons in

she will soon realise your getting on with your life. enjoying it. and she will be craving for you back, in the meantime you always have the opportunity of meeting someone else - but let them come to you.

 

[johnny on the spot]

go single

and go out with your mates, join a gym, join a footie team, get some driving lessons in

she will soon realise your getting on with your life. enjoying it. and she will be craving for you back, in the meantime you always have the opportunity of meeting someone else - but let them come to you.

Look out! It's the Construction Guy from the Village People!

 

[Matty]

I've only read the thread title but has anyone advocated 'shag her in the arse' yet?

First page, last post, wouldn't be Bluemoon if they hadn't.

This all seems far too convoluted and involved for it to be worth the bother if I'm honest. Relationships aren't anywhere near as complex as people make them out to be, you either want to be with someone or you don't, if you "need time to work things out" that means you don't want to be with them anymore, if you "feel confused" that means you don't want to be with them anymore, if you "need a little space" that means you don't want to be with them anymore. Basically, if she wants to go out with you she's fully aware all she needs to say is "I want to go out with you" and it'll happen, the fact she hasn't said this should tell you all you need to know.

There's no point anyone telling you any of this however as, from your comments, it seems you've made your mind up that, regardless of the "advice" you've requested you're going to simply wait it out and allow her to make the decisions, and not exactly speedily. "I'll let you know if I want to be with you in a months time", what the FUCK is that? If there was ever an indicator that she isn't all that interested anymore then it's right there for you.

It's easy for an outsider to say this but you really do need to move on and see what else is out there. What's also easy is for an outsider to view the cold hard facts without the emotional attachment, the facts don't lie, she's gettign the elements of "relationship" she wants from you without having to actually make any committments to you.