My wife is crazy and it's getting to be a problem.

[dronefromsector7G]

She sounds a keeper to me.

Yeah, Rene Higuita

 

[Stephen Ireland's pants]

You'd think after losing a house or two he'd work out it's worth learning to cook your own tea?

I've got a major problem with house work. Don't mind cooking and washing the dishes but hate dusting and cleaning the blinds which are a pain in the arse. Thought about getting a bird who is willing to do it for me . I might just get rid of the blinds as it's probably a cheaper and less stressful option

 

[mancityvstoke]

Great advice as usual.....apart from the sensible cunts.

 

[Blue Mist]

Perhaps the OP should do what me and Mrs Mist did. After 12 months of being wed things weren't best ever. Mrs Mist suggested we did a list of each others faults so we could work on them. I soon listed the 5 annoying things she did. We've now been married for 41 years.

She hasn't finished her list.

 

[kaz7]

Is she going through the menopause? Try and get her to talk to you and see what she has to say.

This , even if she is in her fourties she could be in peri or full on menopause , it can send some women quite crazy

 

[KS55]

As a self confessed woman and occasional over-reacter, but with no other qualifications or experience to comment more knowledgeably on this subject, it's important to always remember one thing in relationships. And that's quite simple - just don't be a ****.

Treat the other person, whoever that is, man, woman or some other self proclaimed identifier, as you'd like to be treated. I.e. with love, respect and honesty. And expect to be treated likewise in return. Don't behave badly to someone but then expect to be treated like a king/queen in return.

And if you can't have a genuine conversation about this basic concept with the person that you share your life with, then something has gone horribly wrong at some point.

OP, I hope that you can manage to talk to your wife about the problems that you're having as it seems that you do want to find a resolution. It may be that there's a medical issue behind it, or it may be the culmination of something which happened a long time ago which has gone unchecked and festered. Maybe now that you've vented a bit on here, you'll be in a better place to have a conversation at home (acknowledging entirely that it takes 2 people to talk and that you can't have a conversation with someone who won't engage. But at least then you'll know whether there's a relationship to save).

Absolutely right. If it is impossible to sit down and talk, write a letter. Don’t complain or tell hers she’s wrong, just explain that you are hurting and would like to solve the problem. Worth a try.

 

[Hes the left back remember]

Stop being miserable and unhappy, we are only here once walk away and enjoy life!

 

[MouldensChippy]

This , even if she is in her fourties she could be in peri or full on menopause , it can send some women quite crazy

Add to this that she could be 'crazy' for a long time. The bosslady was on perma angry for years before she settled down again. I couldn't even mention that she may pay a visit to the doctors on fear of death !

 

[Mad Eyed Screamer]

Put her under the fucking patio.

You're in the states ...it's legal.

Only in 37 states.

 

[CarlosTevez'sEnglishTutor]

Time for a weekend girlfriend me thinks. Get some new hobbies, smash the gym and get yourself out there bud.