Bellamyend
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explain that her overeating & generally poor presentation is the root cause of the problem. put her on a Performance Improvement Plan
Tbh i am over it because to me it was the love i had for my gf that made me realise what i was doing an stopped me from going any further... 1 of those moments when you think with you d**k! Just dont see her being as lenient as id hope!CityChick said:dont own up. if its just kissing you will get over it in time and ur current gf will probably forgive you for it.
dont upset her if you dont have to!
Lol :DBimboBob said:Try some reverse mental stuff...
Tell your current bird that whilst she was away you visited a prossie. She will probably go mental. Fair do's. Wait about 10 minutes and then say...oh...now i remember...it wasn't a prossie i just kissed my ex.
This will seem like not a bad thing at all and she will soon be licking your plums waiting for the pop shot.
Bellyeye said:Aye, own up. You'll always feel like a liar and a cheat otherwise.
I was thinking of that tbh, only problem is there's not that much i could say lol... She kept on saying to me "i could screw you over but you know im not that type of person" she honesty doesn't seem like she would screw me over but that obviously isn't going to stop me from being paranoid.<br /><br />-- Mon Oct 03, 2011 4:30 pm --<br /><br />Mikem93 said:Bellyeye said:Aye, own up. You'll always feel like a liar and a cheat otherwise.
Don't keep it to yourself and just hope your ex doesn't say anything. Or you could try and think about something incriminating you know about your ex that she wouldn't want anyone knowing.
Forgot to mention the day i told her i couldnt be with her was the day of her Aunts funeral.... They were very very close....The Pink Panther said:Armaan said:I just fucked things up for myself real bad. Past two weeks i havent seen my gf much coz shes been staying over at her cousans in London. Felt very horny (lol) and started thinking about my ex.... Thought id give her a call and she agreed to meet me, obviously because shes still deeply in love with me. I thought id try to be clever and be in two relationships at once!
Anyway, met up with her once... Only a bit of kissing to start off with. But as soon as I went back home i thought to myself "what the fuck have i done"... I felt guilty and regretted it because i do love my current gf a lot and i felt like shit from that point on... I dont even know what made me do this it was just stupid of me to do it. I explained to my ex that i didnt feel right and i couldnt be with her.... She was devastated but promised not to tell anyone about what had happened.... She even said a few months down the line when shes over me we could be friends.... Im just so paranoid thinking what if she does tell.... Ahhh this is too much of a head fuck! And yes im a dick for playing with her feelings!
You've said it all there.
Armaan said:I was thinking of that tbh, only problem is there's not that much i could say lol... She kept on saying to me "i could screw you over but you know im not that type of person" she honesty doesn't seem like she would screw me over but that obviously isn't going to stop me from being paranoid.Mikem93 said:Bellyeye said:Aye, own up. You'll always feel like a liar and a cheat otherwise.
Don't keep it to yourself and just hope your ex doesn't say anything. Or you could try and think about something incriminating you know about your ex that she wouldn't want anyone knowing.
-- Mon Oct 03, 2011 4:30 pm --
Forgot to mention the day i told her i couldnt be with her was the day of her Aunts funeral.... They were very very close....The Pink Panther said:Armaan said:I just fucked things up for myself real bad. Past two weeks i havent seen my gf much coz shes been staying over at her cousans in London. Felt very horny (lol) and started thinking about my ex.... Thought id give her a call and she agreed to meet me, obviously because shes still deeply in love with me. I thought id try to be clever and be in two relationships at once!
Anyway, met up with her once... Only a bit of kissing to start off with. But as soon as I went back home i thought to myself "what the fuck have i done"... I felt guilty and regretted it because i do love my current gf a lot and i felt like shit from that point on... I dont even know what made me do this it was just stupid of me to do it. I explained to my ex that i didnt feel right and i couldnt be with her.... She was devastated but promised not to tell anyone about what had happened.... She even said a few months down the line when shes over me we could be friends.... Im just so paranoid thinking what if she does tell.... Ahhh this is too much of a head fuck! And yes im a dick for playing with her feelings!
You've said it all there.
Armaan said:Cant, i know how my gf is and she'd leave me tbh... Dont want that to happen. Im so stressed out right now, i think if she doesn't open her mouth in 1 or 2 month time then she probably never will? Well i hope so anywayBellyeye said:Aye, own up. You'll always feel like a liar and a cheat otherwise.
"i could screw you over but you know im not that type of person"
"I will hold this one in the bank, and I will use it to get you back at some point. I will never, ever discard this particular IOU".
Armaan said:I was thinking of that tbh, only problem is there's not that much i could say lol... She kept on saying to me "i could screw you over but you know im not that type of person" she honesty doesn't seem like she would screw me over but that obviously isn't going to stop me from being paranoid.Mikem93 said:Bellyeye said:Aye, own up. You'll always feel like a liar and a cheat otherwise.
Don't keep it to yourself and just hope your ex doesn't say anything. Or you could try and think about something incriminating you know about your ex that she wouldn't want anyone knowing.
-- Mon Oct 03, 2011 4:30 pm --
Forgot to mention the day i told her i couldnt be with her was the day of her Aunts funeral.... They were very very close....The Pink Panther said:Armaan said:I just fucked things up for myself real bad. Past two weeks i havent seen my gf much coz shes been staying over at her cousans in London. Felt very horny (lol) and started thinking about my ex.... Thought id give her a call and she agreed to meet me, obviously because shes still deeply in love with me. I thought id try to be clever and be in two relationships at once!
Anyway, met up with her once... Only a bit of kissing to start off with. But as soon as I went back home i thought to myself "what the fuck have i done"... I felt guilty and regretted it because i do love my current gf a lot and i felt like shit from that point on... I dont even know what made me do this it was just stupid of me to do it. I explained to my ex that i didnt feel right and i couldnt be with her.... She was devastated but promised not to tell anyone about what had happened.... She even said a few months down the line when shes over me we could be friends.... Im just so paranoid thinking what if she does tell.... Ahhh this is too much of a head fuck! And yes im a dick for playing with her feelings!
You've said it all there.