Social conservatism

[@BluePhil8]

as with a bloke it depends.
i would use the amount of force i thought was required to stop her twatting me and keep me and mine safe.
the same calculation i would make if it was a bloke.

Would those calculations be different? To be plain, would you anticipate that you’d have to use less force to stop a woman and more force to stop a man?

If so, that would be treating the opposite sex differently.

 

[pirate]

I believe they have just as many rights as I do, I just believe men should treat women better than themselves.

If you think there’s anything wrong with that you can do one.

i will do one
i will leave you with this thought first
it appears you treat women with the respect they deserve, but you dont give men the same respect that they deserve.
that appears to make you a bit of a ****, if we are going to be aggressive with each other.

 

[Ban-jani]

i will do one
i will leave you with this thought first
it appears you treat women with the respect they deserve, but you dont give men the same respect that they deserve.
that appears to make you a bit of a ****, if we are going to be aggressive with each other.

All that’s happened in the last 12 hours is a load of you have made presumption after presumption.

I actually specifically said it doesn’t mean I treat men badly, I just believe the respect you show to women should go above and beyond general respect to men.

I guarantee you wouldn’t call me a **** to my face either. Keyboard warrior.

 

[pirate]

Would those calculations be different? To be plain, would you anticipate that you’d have to use less force to stop a woman and more force to stop a man?

it depends on the physique, level of aggression, the size of the group they are with, how competent they appear to be at fighting etc etc.
Generally women are physically smaller than men so in general less force would be required, but thats based on the factors mentioned, whether they have tits and a fanny doesnt enter into it.

 

[urban genie]

Have you ever thought they might not like it ? About 30% of my friends are women, must admit I can be overly protective at times tbh.

Being polite to women and showing them respect is just good manners and should be equally done to men and women and anyone else of whatever gender they wish to be.

Thinking women are more fragile and need protecting is just wrong and I would say insulting.

I agree with you, I have close female friend who call me every name under the sun and equally I will tell them to fuck off and insult them when they piss me off, thqt doesn't mean I go around doing it to strangers, as that would be impolite.

Also I don't presume a woman needs my help, but will offer it to be good mannered and I suppose a gentleman, if they tell me no, then I will repsect them not look dowm on them.

Having good manner isn't a product of a conservative nature either.

 

[@BluePhil8]

it depends on the physique, level of aggression, the size of the group they are with, how competent they appear to be at fighting etc etc.
Generally women are physically smaller than men so in general less force would be required, but thats based on the factors mentioned, whether they have tits and a fanny doesnt enter into it.

Ah, so treating the opposite gender differently based on their biological physical differences is fine and doesn’t make you a coward. But treating them differently based on anything else does make you a coward. I get it now.

 

[urban genie]

Honest question and not whataboutery, if a woman kept coming at you on a night out and hit you 3 or 4 times, you’d lay in to them with all your strength, as you would to a man? Fair fucks if so.

I had a women twat me with her stilleto, still got the scar on top of my head, I never once thought, right I'll smack you for that, I instead held her in a lock to constrained her while the police arrived, all the time getting ankle kicks.

I have been attacked by blokes before and firstly tried to difuse the situation and if it cannot be puched back.

So no I never thought she was fair game cause she hit me, maybe it was an unconscious thing because she was female and that I would never hit a woman.

But then in my 20s I got into an arguement with a (still) close female friend and as she was slapping me hqrd across tge head I grabed her arms to stop her and pushed her back leaving her wrists red because of the pressure of my grip, was it because we were mates that I was pess gentlemanly? Probably, but I felt a lot of guilt for doing that after and still think of it as one of my most shamefull acts, she jist met me for a drink 2 days after and called me a fucking ballbag, we never brought it up again and I have never got into a similar situation again, if a women kicks pff, I just calm the situation down or if I cannot, politely excuse myself.

 

[dawlish dave]

All that’s happened in the last 12 hours is a load of you have made presumption after presumption.

I actually specifically said it doesn’t mean I treat men badly, I just believe the respect you show to women should go above and beyond general respect to men.

I guarantee you wouldn’t call me a **** to my face either. Keyboard warrior.

What about calling me a FOC, do you say that to people face to face

 

[pirate]

All that’s happened in the last 12 hours is a load of you have made presumption after presumption.

I actually specifically said it doesn’t mean I treat men badly, I just believe the respect you show to women should go above and beyond general respect to men.

I guarantee you wouldn’t call me a **** to my face either. Keyboard warrior.

you specifically said you treat women better.
therefore you treat men worse than you treat women, purely based on the Thats whats wrong.

i guarantee that you are the one that started being aggressive with me not the other way around, or is DO ONE a friendly phrase in your neck of the woods
i can also guarantee that you wouldnt say do one to me in real life, but you knew that anyway didnt you keyboard warrior big snogs and kisses

 

[I'm With Stupid]

So do you speak to your mates wife in the same language you speak to your mate?

Wow indeed.

I'd speak to my female mates in the same language I'd speak to my male mates. The only way in which it might be different is that there's the possibility with female mates that things could be interpreted sexually, so I'd probably be aware of that. Mate's wives and girlfriends are different, because you're not really friends with them, you're only friends by proxy, so you're obviously not going to speak to them in the same way. I wouldn't call my mate's wife a prick in the same way that I wouldn't call my colleague a prick. It's a different type of relationship. But it's not because she's a woman. Obviously everyone interacts with the opposite sex slightly differently to their own, but not everybody make a virtue out of it.