Split with girlfriend... help.

[StrangewaysHereWeCome]

[video]http://youtu.be/v-nNksBWxNI[/video]
I'm slow to finish but I'm quick to start...
I know it can hurt like fuck all else..

Sometimes, I have found with women they're very good at communication verbally yet will dilly dally like fuck when,for you right now, You need a straight answer.

I think you'll have found it on here. Let it go. There's millions and millions of beautiful women out there who all want a portion of big-P. They really do. You're an intelligent young man.

Give yourself some time to heal, don't dwell and let it consume you, I've done that. Even posted a thread on here when I had my life upended and against good advice I did let my anger and resentment stew.. I'm a miserable old fucker though. You're a young lad, get out with your pals and bollocks to her, she'll be out with her mates trying to have a laugh.

As we're all entitled to .. Get on the blower and fuck off out on the piss with your pals, hopefully you've a few quid to do so :)

 

[bgblue]

I've just text her, and because I'm a gentleman and all that shit, I'll post the conversation.
Ps no need to thank me :-)

Her replys have been edited for privacy :-)

 

[dobobobo]

Sounds to me like she already moved on and has her sights set on someone else, sorry but I see what she is really saying is that she wants to try something different and really you doing what you did has given her the out.

She said you have both not been happy for a while, is that true or just true from her point of view?

I would take it as what it is, she's off, don't dwell too much, get out there and do the same.

If in a few months she contacts you, see how you feel but remember by then she would have tried some others out, can you accept that, you yourself might also have had extras. So it could be a win win.

We had been arguing a lot recently and stuff, but we also had really good moments right up until the end. She was very demanding and wouldn't let me go out alot as id spend all my money on her, im a student, so part time wages could only really afford to keep her if i didn't go out whilst she would go out at least once a week. And shes always been moody and stubborn but i really invested alot into this and its shit to give up hope. I told her to not give me false hope and to just tell me straight if there is no going back, she said that she doesn't know how she will feel so she cant say.

Some clarity please.

You speak of financial matters in regards to your relationship and then you mention the bit in bold. Please, can you confirm if you mean you've invested so much financially that you feel you've yet to get a return on your investment. Or, do you mean emotional investment?

Steewdants... bag of shite.

 

[kinkladz-ade]

Sounds to me like she already moved on and has her sights set on someone else, sorry but I see what she is really saying is that she wants to try something different and really you doing what you did has given her the out.

She said you have both not been happy for a while, is that true or just true from her point of view?

I would take it as what it is, she's off, don't dwell too much, get out there and do the same.

If in a few months she contacts you, see how you feel but remember by then she would have tried some others out, can you accept that, you yourself might also have had extras. So it could be a win win.

We had been arguing a lot recently and stuff, but we also had really good moments right up until the end. She was very demanding and wouldn't let me go out alot as id spend all my money on her, im a student, so part time wages could only really afford to keep her if i didn't go out whilst she would go out at least once a week. And shes always been moody and stubborn but i really invested alot into this and its shit to give up hope. I told her to not give me false hope and to just tell me straight if there is no going back, she said that she doesn't know how she will feel so she cant say.

Some clarity please.

You speak of financial matters in regards to your relationship and then you mention the bit in bold. Please, can you confirm if you mean you've invested so much financially that you feel you've yet to get a return on your investment. Or, do you mean emotional investment?

Steewdants... bag of shite.

Exactamundo! Bloody whiney students.

 

[BlueBearBoots]

I've just text her, and because I'm a gentleman and all that shit, I'll post the conversation.
Ps no need to thank me :-)

Her replys have been edited for privacy :-)

Hahaha

 

[mcmanus]

And where's the parody thread it's been at least 20 minutes tut tut...

I thought this was a parody thread.

 

[Tuearts right boot]

It's probably been posted but I couldn't be bothered but I'd lay a pound to a pinch of shit that she's already got someone in reserve....they always have. Could have been going on for a while behind your back, smiling sweetly while twisting the knife. The only way to get your own back is a bottle of spirit and a tall building.That'll teach her.

 

[jimharri]

Still no pics?

 

[aguero93:20]

It's probably been posted but I couldn't be bothered but I'd lay a pound to a pinch of shit that she's already got someone in reserve....they always have. Could have been going on for a while behind your back, smiling sweetly while twisting the knife. The only way to get your own back is a bottle of spirit and a tall building.That'll teach her.

Fucks sake man.


*spirits

 

[paphos-mcfc]

My advice? If the P in your username was penis, this thread wouldn't exist.