That's that then.

[TFC]

Mate, don't bother sending of it back. Either keep wearing it, or if it's too sentimental, just bin it.

Don't contact her, whether it be through post or otherwise.

You're only young — too young to be getting this obsessed. Please listen to your elders who have been there and done that as far as women are concerned.

I think I said earlier that I wasn't going to try and cut her out because eventually we will just stop talking altogether.

But my head can't make a decision. I said last night that I was going to phone her, say my goodbyes and let go. But 20 minutes later I was talking to her.I'm screwed.

See Bob, you're not really listening. I like you, you're a good kid. Which is why I'm trying to help you out.

A couple of years back, I went through a real messy break-up with my first 'real' love (think cheating with two other guys). Some of it I shared here, too. So I've been in your position.

I was friends with my ex for a while. After we broke up, we had a love-hate-love-hate sort of deal where we would be best mates and then feud for months. But trust me, you have to cut her out of your life.

Why?

Because if you don't, and you try to stay 'friends', you do what I did — not commit to another relationship and don't meet new people because you're holding on to the 0.00001% chance that you and the ex will get back together someday. I missed some great opportunities and fucked around some really nice girls because I did exactly this.

For your own sake (and that of the next Mrs. MCFCBob), you need a clean break.

This FFS. Balls deep elsewhere lad. ASAP.

 

[Ticket For Schalke]

Bobs a faggot and should stop pouring his heart out on a forum, welcome to the real world.

What doesnt kill you and all that jazz.

 

[Dubai Blue]

Beginning to deposit of the things she gave me. Cards in the bin; clothes awaiting to go in a box to post back to her.

I really don't get this bit. I suspect you see it as one last big woe-is-me gesture to tug at her heart strings, but I promise you it is just a waste of time, money, effort and emotion.

They're your clothes; what would she possibly want with them? If you don't want them any longer, chuck them out, because that's exactly what she'll do when they land on her doorstep.

I know it's difficult, but no more grand gestures. No more sending things back to her and no more calling her to say goodbye for the last time. Just try to get on with it, and definitely heed everyone's advice about cutting ALL ties with her. There's plenty of time for you and her to become friends again in the future once you've both matured and developed emotionally. But follow the above advice and I suspect you won't even give a fuck about ever talking to her again.

 

[peoffrey]

Bobs a faggot and should stop pouring his heart out on a forum, welcome to the real world.

What doesnt kill you and all that jazz.

You're a charmer, aren't you?

 

[Bluemoon115]

A quick read of this thread before I went out last night put me in a good frame of mind, I went out feeling bulletproof and I managed to get my end away.

So yeah, cheers for the thread Bob.

 

[MCFC BOB]

Beginning to deposit of the things she gave me. Cards in the bin; clothes awaiting to go in a box to post back to her.

I really don't get this bit. I suspect you see it as one last big woe-is-me gesture to tug at her heart strings, but I promise you it is just a waste of time, money, effort and emotion.

They're your clothes; what would she possibly want with them? If you don't want them any longer, chuck them out, because that's exactly what she'll do when they land on her doorstep.

I know it's difficult, but no more grand gestures. No more sending things back to her and no more calling her to say goodbye for the last time. Just try to get on with it, and definitely heed everyone's advice about cutting ALL ties with her. There's plenty of time for you and her to become friends again in the future once you've both matured and developed emotionally. But follow the above advice and I suspect you won't even give a fuck about ever talking to her again.

It's just stuff she gave me. They're all her stuff. Bracelets, stuffed toys, hoodies, they're all hers. I asked if she wanted them back and she said she did. I don't know what she's going to do with them but they're hers now.

 

[Josh Blue]

Beginning to deposit of the things she gave me. Cards in the bin; clothes awaiting to go in a box to post back to her.

I really don't get this bit. I suspect you see it as one last big woe-is-me gesture to tug at her heart strings, but I promise you it is just a waste of time, money, effort and emotion.

They're your clothes; what would she possibly want with them? If you don't want them any longer, chuck them out, because that's exactly what she'll do when they land on her doorstep.

I know it's difficult, but no more grand gestures. No more sending things back to her and no more calling her to say goodbye for the last time. Just try to get on with it, and definitely heed everyone's advice about cutting ALL ties with her. There's plenty of time for you and her to become friends again in the future once you've both matured and developed emotionally. But follow the above advice and I suspect you won't even give a fuck about ever talking to her again.

It's just stuff she gave me. They're all her stuff. Bracelets, stuffed toys, hoodies, they're all hers. I asked if she wanted them back and she said she did. I don't know what she's going to do with them but they're hers now.

Stuffed toys Bob? .......

 

[MCFC BOB]

I really don't get this bit. I suspect you see it as one last big woe-is-me gesture to tug at her heart strings, but I promise you it is just a waste of time, money, effort and emotion.

They're your clothes; what would she possibly want with them? If you don't want them any longer, chuck them out, because that's exactly what she'll do when they land on her doorstep.

I know it's difficult, but no more grand gestures. No more sending things back to her and no more calling her to say goodbye for the last time. Just try to get on with it, and definitely heed everyone's advice about cutting ALL ties with her. There's plenty of time for you and her to become friends again in the future once you've both matured and developed emotionally. But follow the above advice and I suspect you won't even give a fuck about ever talking to her again.

It's just stuff she gave me. They're all her stuff. Bracelets, stuffed toys, hoodies, they're all hers. I asked if she wanted them back and she said she did. I don't know what she's going to do with them but they're hers now.

Stuffed toys Bob? .......

Yeah, just as a joke and all.

 

[Swales lives]

Stuffed toys and bracelets... I wish I hadn't tried to help you now Bob you fucking ****.

 

[SWP's back]

You fail to take on sage advice Bob and wear bracelets.

Oxygen thief.