MCFC BOB said:After reading your post, Dubai, I think I'll just send a note with her stuff.
'Thanks for everything, I love you still and what we had was great, but I think it's best we never talk again if I'm going to be happy in the future. Goodbye, good luck.'
That's just an abridged version of what I imagined the full letter woudl say. It still does exactly the same thing and still comes across as a bit needy and self-serving. She knows you love her, she knows you think your time together was great, and she knows you're hurting; you really don't need to tell her this all over again.MCFC BOB said:After reading your post, Dubai, I think I'll just send a note with her stuff.
'Thanks for everything, I love you still and what we had was great, but I think it's best we never talk again if I'm going to be happy in the future. Goodbye, good luck.'
I asked her if she wanted it back. She just said she did, so I guess I can just send it back.Dubai Blue said:That's just an abridged version of what I imagined the full letter woudl say. It still does exactly the same thing and still comes across as a bit needy and self-serving. She knows you love her, she knows you think your time together was great, and she knows you're hurting; you really don't need to tell her this all over again.MCFC BOB said:After reading your post, Dubai, I think I'll just send a note with her stuff.
'Thanks for everything, I love you still and what we had was great, but I think it's best we never talk again if I'm going to be happy in the future. Goodbye, good luck.'
I still don't really understand why you're sending stuff back, but that's your call. If you must do it, accompany it with a note saying "Hi.......Here's all the stuff I said I'd send you back. All the best for the future. Bob"
That is it. Nothing else needs to be said.
TheMightyQuinn said:AntonDonJuan said:Hahahaha foe me then if i offend you so muchmcfcliam said:It's quite worrying though, I mean, you seem to follow the kid around the forum and come out with the same insults...if I was you, I'd seek help, I'd be worried if I was 17 and a grown man was following me around a forum.
Wouldn't you be, Anthony?
Or stop being a mard **** and take bob's cock out of your mouth
Use of the word 'mard' CHECK
Use of the 'C Word' CHECK
Reference to homosexual activity between victim and ally CHECK
Perfect insult, exact formula I use.
It's over.
Liam's defence of Bob was still beautiful though.
For fuck sake this is my last post in this god awful thread. I will make the words nice and large and put them in bold so there is maybe the slightest chance that despite ignoring the last 40 odd pages of advice you might take note....MCFC BOB said:After reading your post, Dubai, I think I'll just send a note with her stuff.
'Thanks for everything, I love you still and what we had was great, but I think it's best we never talk again if I'm going to be happy in the future. Goodbye, good luck.'
MCFC BOB said:I asked her if she wanted it back. She just said she did, so I guess I can just send it back.Dubai Blue said:That's just an abridged version of what I imagined the full letter woudl say. It still does exactly the same thing and still comes across as a bit needy and self-serving. She knows you love her, she knows you think your time together was great, and she knows you're hurting; you really don't need to tell her this all over again.MCFC BOB said:After reading your post, Dubai, I think I'll just send a note with her stuff.
'Thanks for everything, I love you still and what we had was great, but I think it's best we never talk again if I'm going to be happy in the future. Goodbye, good luck.'
I still don't really understand why you're sending stuff back, but that's your call. If you must do it, accompany it with a note saying "Hi.......Here's all the stuff I said I'd send you back. All the best for the future. Bob"
That is it. Nothing else needs to be said.
Yeah, that seems fair. :)
Take heed of this young Bob, take heed.blue_bird said:MCFC BOB said:I asked her if she wanted it back. She just said she did, so I guess I can just send it back.Dubai Blue said:That's just an abridged version of what I imagined the full letter woudl say. It still does exactly the same thing and still comes across as a bit needy and self-serving. She knows you love her, she knows you think your time together was great, and she knows you're hurting; you really don't need to tell her this all over again.
I still don't really understand why you're sending stuff back, but that's your call. If you must do it, accompany it with a note saying "Hi.......Here's all the stuff I said I'd send you back. All the best for the future. Bob"
That is it. Nothing else needs to be said.
Yeah, that seems fair. :)
From a female perspective it seems you're sending the stuff back as an excuse to keep in contact with her. If she wanted her stuff back why did she give them to you in the first place?
Like previously advised, cease ALL contact with her because again, saying you want to stay friends is a feeble excuse to stay in touch with her in the hope she'll change her mind one day. If she has genuinely made a mistake by ending the relationship she will soon realise and be back in touch with you. You sending her or her parents letters isn't going to influence her in the way that you want it to.
"if you love somebody, let them go. If they return, they were always yours. If they don't, they never were"