I suppose you’re just about getting close to it with this essay, but you’ve still not really answered.
I’m merely questioning what is an incredibly, in fact phenomenally detailed description from somebody with a fake persona, who had an obvious axe to grind.The point is that you can’t accept the retelling of the event to be true.
I hadnt. I often ask. It may depend on the customer whether i chat full stop about anything to anyoneYes, but you'd obviously well judged the situation and built a rapport before going in with the question. I also suspect that if she'd have looked a bit pissed off and said she was from chorlton you'd have had the emotional intelligence to drop the subject and steer the conversation elsewhere.
Was watching a tv doc last week where 3 different coppers independently gave a word for word statement off an accused.I’m merely questioning what is an incredibly, in fact phenomenally detailed description from somebody with a fake persona, who had an obvious axe to grind.
I don't think a rational, nice, normal, non argumentative person would get pissed off. I think most would know exactly what manner the question was asked in and chat , politely, accordingly. I honestly think if someone gets pissed off its more their problem than mineYes, but you'd obviously well judged the situation and built a rapport before going in with the question. I also suspect that if she'd have looked a bit pissed off and said she was from chorlton you'd have had the emotional intelligence to drop the subject and steer the conversation elsewhere.
I expect that would have been the case with this incident too. It wasn't till something like four questions in that she started getting annoyed.I don't think a rational, nice, normal, non argumentative person would get pissed off. I think most would know exactly what manner the question was asked in and chat , politely, accordingly. I honestly think if someone gets pissed off its more their problem than mine
Was watching a tv doc last week where 3 different coppers independently gave a word for word statement off an accused.
It was debunked in court as an expert said only a highly trained actor could hear a statement once and recall it word for word later in the day. Said its nigh on impossible and the odds of 3 doing it astronomical
I think that if as reported she moved the woman's hair to see her name badge before even opening the conversation then it was doomed from the off. Maybe if it started with a 'hello, sorry I can't see your badge so you will have to introduce yourself' rather than invading her space and rummaging for the label like something on a supermarket shelf things would've gone differently (better)?I expect that would have been the case with this incident too. It wasn't till something like four questions in that she started getting annoyed.
You asked a question and got a positive response. The racist bit is telling someone who was born in this country, and whose parents moved her 70 years ago, that they are "from" the Caribbean.