The points you advance are not without any merit, but you conspicuously miss the point that most rankles with City fans and that is the absurd and pompous way that so many people associated with your club pontificate, to the point of utter fucking tedium, about its 'specialnesss' and 'class', as if it is somehow more worthy than other clubs. It is not. It is, and always was a deeply flawed institution, much as City has been throughout its history. In this sense, united supporters and management alike, you mirror the very thing you so forcefully claim to despise the most - Liverpool Football Club and its fans.
As City fans, we are well aware of our club's many shortcomings and (in the main) are able to take the piss out of ourselves for it. This is a quality that is manifestly lacking in most united fans, not least because they are so ill-informed about the less palatable parts of your club's history. Quite recently a poster on rag café enquired why Charlton was referred to on here as the 'ticket tout'. Such lack of knowledge is not consistent with someone who has any self-awareness about their own club, or has taken the time to independently read up on the subject.
The primary reason for this pitiful lack of knowledge about the wider history of united among such a large proportion of its support is the club itself which, it should be said, is supremely good at managing its image within the media.
It's unfortunate for you that over the last generation, as a club, you seemed to have attracted so many gullible fools who are only too willing to swallow such bollocks.
The united way is a lie, a myth and a con. Anyone who ever believed that crap, as so many of your supporters did and still do, is a fool and deserves nothing but contempt.