One thing I will say about Balotelli, and in fact, about the team this season, is that we do seem to be coming up with a lot of excuses when things go wrong, and Mancini is guilty of this.
Balotelli - I don't care how talented a player is, you have to work hard. I don't mean tonight, but in general, when he does something wrong on the pitch, (bad pass, not closing down) Mancini is always ready with an excuse. He's young yes, but so are lots of other players. It's not a matter of adapting to the game with Balotelli, it's a matter of completely changing his attitude to football, and in particular, this football club. You can't do that by being really soft with him.
Also, it's starting to rub off on the fans. I've hated teams that constantly moan to the referee, go down easy (to 'win' free kicks), dive and make stupid cynical fouls. We're doing this far too much and even our fans in the stands are starting to claim for fouls that are never fouls in a million years! Just compare some of the things you heard at a game now, to what you heard let's say 6 years ago. I've noticed that we're almost becoming 'Ronaldo-esque' in a persistent howling at the referee to give free-kicks for nothing, niggling things. It's a horrible way to play football, and if that's what football has become, we don't necessarily need to continue the shite trend!
Cup competitions - This worried me before tonight, and rightly so. In his pre-match press conference, Mancini said, "we have to remember, after tomorrow's game, it is only half time.." What a shit thing to say! From what I gather, he thinks this about other games to, like the FA Cup, and he's far too reliant on bringing the opposition back to Manchester, "on a good pitch." I'm guessing he told the team not to concede tonight, and when they did, his game plan fucked up. At HT, he probably said keep the ball get at least one goal, see what happens, but don't concede. (Like at Notts County (0-0) and Leicester (2-1)). We conceded after HT in all three of those games and scored in only one. Worrying.