The statement “I said some racist comments when I was young, looking back now I was a complete idiot and I’m ashamed I said some of the things I said” is something I think is a lot of people could say, if not the majority, and most could say it sincerely. Part of the problem is we’re not mature enough around our conversations to get there though where people feel comfortable enough to say it and it’s only said when people are “caught”. The vilification and pile on is so extreme and consequences of the actions are all lumped into the the same bucket, at times regardless of the actual pain and offence that was suffered.
I get it to an extent, vilifying racism at all levels is clearly and obviously a good thing. I just don’t think we’ve got the admittance in the first place and acceptance of its wider existence individually or collectively to have jumped straight there and a consequence of making it so binary is blurring lines and detracting from where the real discussion should be, concern, protection and understanding the impact for those actually on the receiving end.
I just feel so sorry for any of those; Rafiq for how he was treated and made to feel at Yorkshire, any child from a minority background reading of his experiences and thinking they may have to go through that too (and they won’t just be thinking it’s solely about Yorkshire or even cricket) and today how a Jewish child will feel reading that tweet that’s surfaced.
We’ve got a long long way to go.