Ah ok. Personally I don’t have a solution to that specific point, that’s not the point I was making. On that, Mays deal tried to achieve it, but like you say, for a lot of people that was considered leaving just in name or conversely too hard a brexit as well (which seems to be forgotten now) - that just shows how much the debate has shifted.
On the point I was making though. If you’re genuinely unionist, then you go into negotiations with the underlying principle of ensuring the same deal for all regardless of the consequences as the consistency of that union is the primary point.
Like has been said, it’s just shown that actually there aren’t that many people that interested in NI or the union or if they are, it isn’t as important to them as our deal with the EU is. That’s fine and a lot of people will just readily admit it, like on this thread. Johnson didn’t do that though, he was deliberately disingenuous about it.