there is no control over the player if they wanted to go skiing outside of his football and training and playing times
some players do crazy things in their free time or days off, if a manager had full control of his player's lifestyles he would not have much time on his hands for football,
You hope you can drill the players into ideas and plans and good habits, but the truth is it's out of the club's and managers' hands, As I said the only control would be playing time or training with the kids and the cold shoulder then out the door in the next transfer window,