LittleStan
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Mugatu said:It's not about anger, I'm a very calm person but I have lightly slapped my daughter on the hand after she continually bit me. I've told her not to bite, I've verbally chastised her, raised my voice, but she carried on... sometimes you have to have that next option. It has worked by the way, she knows now that biting is wrong and has consequences. I'd be interested to hear (genuinely) how you would have dealt with this problem.
By the way, don't say "end" as if your opinion is the only one, it's childish in itself. Adults can and do disagree on this subject.
I have had this problem when my little girl bit my son. We (Mrs Stan and me) pointed out how upset he was and that the consequences of hurting somebody was upsetting them. It worked.
You also made the point about being adults (this is not aimed at you BTW but you gave me the lead in).
We are the adults, they are the inexperienced children with limited knowledge. They need to learn and do so solely from their parents / carers in the first few years.
We can teach them discipline, respect and show them how to learn, but only if we know that ourselves.
A few people on the thread have misunderstood discipline for violence.