That makes no sense, play hard ball, no reconciliation, these are stupid phrases, what does too soft even mean ?The government have one job, any government, that job is to make life easier and better for people in this country, This government have shown they are incapable of that,this hard Brexit has made things worse.
We are where we are, but we have to stop digging and find away out of the hole. That means sensible grown up conversations with the EU. Yes you’re right there is a chance another consequence of brexit is a break up of the EU, the less reconcilliation with the EU the more likely that is, is that what you want, will that be good?
Your solution seems to be an even harder brexit, more isolation , in what way can that make anything better for the people in this country?