CTID101 said:
Cheers for the advice guys,
Just to answer a few questions,
I would say that failure occurs when I am at the bottom, it just feels like I don't have the power to push it!
I feel ok when I lift it off and then start bringing it down but its almost like my arms can't push it up!
I can do 35kg total ok but as soon as I go above its like my arms are made of jelly!
OK mate, that's pretty common in beginners/novices tbh, first off, what we must remember is that flat bench, even though it's considered a chest exercise, relies heavily on front delts as a supporting muscle (and triceps, but weak triceps normally affect the lock-out stage and also muscles like lats too) , getting stuck at the bottom is normally down to weak front delts, then, there's also the question of your form/technique, without seeing you perform the exercise it's difficult to say whether it's good or bad, but a few pointers, stability, make sure you're 'locked in', as in feet firmly planted on the floor, tuck elbows in slightly giving you a good steady base to drive from and head straight ahead, make sure any pins/rack is set to where it needs to be so you can take the weight comfortably.
You could always eat a better spread of nutrients and work on the supporting muscle groups, but getting round this sticking point as it stands, well there are numerous things you can try, you can lower the rep range to around 3-5 reps and up the weight, but concentrate on the bottom part of the exercise, ie from the chest and up just past the point where failure normally occurs, and keep within this ROM (range of motion) for the reps you do, keep the reps nice and slow and steady and the muscle under constant tension, do around 4 sets, then place enough weight on the bar that you can do 10-12 reps, and repeat the process for a few sets with the lower weight and higher reps.
Do this for 2-3 weeks and then go back to your original set and rep scheme, hopefully you should find that you'll be able go beyond what you're used to.