Whilst i dont agree with many of the isreali governments actions you can also look at that the other way round they have been under constant attack since its creation and have been protecting themselves , have they made mistakes along the way 100% however that doesn't take away from.the route cause.
I've lived there its a shit show from both sides
They've certainly been provoked and attacked and suffered because of the conflict, but Israel's strategy has been the same for most of the last 40 years and it's not getting them any closer to peace. For the most part they seem fine with that now they have iron dome and can build settlements apart from once every few years when it gets out of their control and something awful happens to civilians on one or both sides.