Not gonna defend him or make.excuses for him, but when I was 19/20 it was the first time I did 3 months traveling roind south east asia with a mate and there may have been the odd time we would have ended up with some lasses of our age met while in our hotel for the night, that didn't automatically mean we were shagging owt just drinking and having a laugh. And I plenty of other mates of that age going to spain for two weeks and shagging about, no excuse, but the follly of youth and being away, so I and many others are in no posotoon to judge.
He has a wife and child so should know better, but this is a young lad who has made a mistake and should be left to sort it out privately.
On a side note imagine if smartphones had been about in andy dibble and clayton blackmores time, fuck me they would be some footage about ;-)