So finally after many months of appointments and Check ups I on Thursday got diagnosed with prostate cancer , this might sound a bit mad but I’m now finally relieved that it’s now done it’s taken a while to get this all sorted and I know I got back to the Jack grealish thread when I mentioned this . Unfortunately for someone of my age (53) on Wednesday it’s an aggressive form but I’m under stepping hill and Christie’s now so I’m in good hands. If anyone has any experience of this it’d be nice if it’s shared either on here or a pm. I’m ok even though I always had a bad feeling of the final diagnosis it’s a shock that the Gleeson score was quite aggressive I’ll fight this all the bloody way . I’m grateful I’ve got great family and friends around me , please don’t take this as a sympathy post more of any advice and experience in this is always welcome.
So there it is I’m type of bloke whose pretty open with things and this on here will help .
Finally please anyone of you who’s getting towards the age of 50 please, please have a mot at your doctors/GP . Do not ignore this prostate cancer IS the silent assassin.
Take care all you and up blues.
Really sorry to hear of your diagnosis A57, but good luck and I’m glad you took the initiative to start this thread.
Unfortunately far too many men neglect their health and it shouldn’t be like that. Surely it is better to be proactive as much as possible, rather than reactive?
I have my medical/physical every year and that includes having my prostate checked. I’m sure it’s a highlight for my doctor and she really looks forward to sticking her finger up my bum, but it’s nothing compared to women and what they have to endure. Flattened tits and legs spread wide apart while some stranger pokes around taking samples. I have a PSA test bi-annually, but was warned by my doctor that they have a little history of false positives.
Next Wednesday I go for a stress test. The last I had was 10 years ago and I’m using that as a benchmark for the next. I don’t want to have a stroke or heart attack and be advised, “If only you had.........”.
I had a colonoscopy about 10 years ago, but now you send in a sample, which is a little safer than shoving a scope up my rectum and risking damage.
There is an additional health issue that I would like to highlight and that is TESTICULAR CANCER.
About 14 years ago I was chatting to a friend of mine who is a nurse and she asked me if I checked for testicular cancer. I didn’t, but I know my nutz don’t I, if there was any issue there, I’d know!!
Well, apparently I didn’t know and when I did check, I found a small lump the size of a small pea. This was about 10pm at night, so I headed straight to Emerg and had it checked. The doctor was pretty sure it was a cyst, a later ultrasound confirmed her diagnosis and a trip to see a urologist concluded the same. I just wanted everything checked to be sure. As the urologist advised me it would continue to grow and my poor little nutz are now dwarfed by their big brother, but at least there were no cancer issues. Without checking, I would have been blissfully unaware of this problem until the size was more noticeable and had it been cancer, it may have been too late.
A note for you young ‘uns............although it can affect any age, this is more prevalent between ages
15 and 35, so I would urge every guy to make a simple check on a regular basis, or if you are a parent with sons, at least make them aware of it.