BigJoe#1
Well-Known Member
I am really sorry to hear of your and your sons' plight.My son's situation is perhaps a snapshot of this country at this time;
My son is 42 and recently returned to the UK very unwell, after working in the Czech Republic for 8 years.
He has no fixed home as I live in a studio apartment and there's no room. Thankfully, his half sister (who has 3 kids) lets him sleep on her sofa for 3 nights and then he has my flat when I'm not here.
He tried to work. Managed it for a few weeks with an ex manager, but his mental health has deteriorated because of his living arrangements. He was self employed at this time, earning good money, but can't rent privately because the letting agents want evidence of 12 months self employment invoices. Then he had to leave work because his mental health was getting worse because of no fixed base.
So we have tried getting a flat together. Again, his absence from the UK is proving difficult for the checks that they do and my income alone is below some of the rental requirements. So the letting agents then want a UK home guarantor. I have some relations who are UK home owners but have declined because of the credit rating effect.
So we are now at an impasse. With my son's mental health getting worse by the day.
He got a GP appointment this morning, but it was with a mental health practitioner who gave him a fit note but said he can't prescribe meds. Oh, and who also suggested "talking is better than tablets"
I fucking despair, I really do.
This country really is a mess and it is the party's of both colour that are responsible/
I hope you get to a satisfactory conclusion at the soonest.
I'll never forget your act of kindness.... must be well over 15 years ago (BIB)