I have spoken to the nature of the public trust that the RF is meant to maintain (or degrade) elsewhere in the thread, so I will refrain from repeating that treatise. @Plays By Sense Of Smell does an exceptional job speaking to it in his reply to your question.
I will say, I do not wish to “cancel” the monarchy because I do not like this “episode”. As I said in another post, for me, this is simply another in an infinitely long list of examples as to why the monarchy should be absolished.
Ultimately, either the RF (and their decisions and actions) matter or they don’t.
If they don’t matter, then their only function is to leech off resources from the nation that could be used to help mamy that are struggling to stay afloat right now.
If they do matter, then this bizarre, increasingly shambolic situation is important in the context of their function, which is primarily maintaining public trust in the governance and stability of the nation.
As you say, one cannot have it both ways, in which the RF matter but this situation does not.
I am not being impolite, to either you or @Plays By Sense Of Smell , by not replying further. I simply don't care enough, and 3 posts on a topic I don't care that much about is already too many.
I get what you are both saying. I would say that is true. Depending, entirely how much, if at all, you care. I don't (I am not anti nor pro monarchy) so it doesn't mean that to me, but I get and respect that it might to others.
Still think it is an over exaggeration of largly insignificant things, and generated predominantly by a public need to fill headline space. I don't read any more into it beyond that.
What I do find a bit odd is those usually arguing apathy for the royal family suddenly having strong views. Sorry for bracketing you in that as you highlight above, it was meant to be more genearal than that.
Beyond that, I really have nothing else meaningful to say on it, with no disrespect at all to either of you. That isn't even an 'agree to disagree' get-out, I don't even particularly disagree. I'm just avoding myself rambling on.