Spot on mate.
For me, we've got ourselves into a shit situation one way or another, and we now face some very unappealing options. Staying on the periphery whilst the other lot treat us like 2nd class members and race ahead doing things without us and not in our best interests, is crap. Getting fully on board the Euro train is crap... and we've ruled out joining the Euro anyway. And it could all go tits up anyway anyway, which would also be crap.
On the other hand, if we leave, we'll be in recession for 5+ years, maybe 10 and I can kiss goodbye to any hope of a moderately comfortable retirement in 12 years the when I am 67.
Do I want pins in my eyes or a knitting needle through my bollocks? Hmmmmm, forgive me for not being too keen on either. Any impression I may have given about wanting to stay in, reflects in part how my mood has been swinging around, but more so, is simply in response to the dreamers who think it will all be marvellous if we leave. Such views are deeply in need of a reality check!