But why the need for others to tell people they won't be upset?
If my dad died and I posted it on here, I wouldn't expect you to be upset, but would still expect respect or sympathy.
This woman has impacted your life, even if you don't realise it.
Might have been a charity, might have been a special moment with your family over Xmas dinner, in school, absolutely anything.
She has been an ever-present to any person living in this country for the last eight decades.
Remarkable.
I haven't told anyone they can't be upset have I? If that's how they feel then fine. I will be impacted by her death of course, she's been Monarch all my life, but I won't be distraught at her passing and I object to be told by all & sundry that is the way I should feel